How to seduce someone you like?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating someone i really like for couple of months but things happened and he has ghosted me for like a month not sure why.

he is back now and trying to work things out not sure but he asked to meet to talk , i played hard to get and postponed and cancelled the meeting a fee times

but i am going to meet him next week and i really want to seduce him without him noticing that i am trying what things i can do that will make him not stop thinking about me same time i don’t want him to think i care

[normalice]

I can't be seduced with subtlety, myself. Well, I suppose if a girl behaves in a way that makes me pursue her somewhat aggressively and then doesn't resist at all. But it's hard to think of what that kind of behavior might be. Perhaps rubbing your own neck and upper back as a suggestion that you are open to a back rub and then getting a little wiggly if that backrub occurs? That seems plausible.

[OfMiceandMen]

Do it with food. Guys like to eat, so make a nice little picnic and show him you have other charms than just your assets, etc. Besides the whole picnic thing is intimate and shows you can plan.

[Asker]

Won't that show him that i am running after him. I would have done that if he hasn't ghosted me in the first place

[OfMiceandMen]

Not at all, it shows him that he better smarten up, if not, his loss. At least, if you do dump his ass, he can only blame himself, and it doesn't hurt for you to remind him when he tries to contact you again.

[Anonymous]

Why are you like this? You keep thinking that playing these silly games is the way, it’s not, please stop watching these tv shows and movies. This is real life. Just be yourself and act normal because no matter what you do if he has no intention of sticking around then you could be an Angelina Jolie level seductress and he’d still not do right by you.

[c4rtm4nroolz]

are for real? where’s your respect for yourself? Is this how you want men to treat you your entire life…

[AndrewJordon99]

He ghosted you for a MONTH and didn't say why? Don't you want to know why? That's suspicious behavior.

[Asker]

We are supposed to meet so he tell me why
Thats why