How do I successfully but sweetly seduce a man that I already know?

[sweetdoebaby44]

Basically to sum it up, we've already had a brief but very intense history together and there's a lot of love between us still, it's just complicated due to circumstances but I seriously think he's the one, when you know you know and I've never EVER felt this way about anybody else I've liked before, we're like mirrors of eachother, it's amazing. HE'S amazing, but, there's a separation between us and I need some tactics, how could I seduce him without fail but also in a very sweet and emotional way? I know I already have a bit of a hold over him in some ways, but how do I for SURE solidify that? Any tips with any kind of seduction? Sensually, sweetly, lovingly, emotionally, just very intimate but not insanely forward y'know? absolutely ANYTHING, tell me!!! <3 Whether it's behavioral, clothing, verbally, anything!!! I'm all ears!!!

[Sangita93]

Men are described as “visual creatures” because they are generally more visually oriented in arousal and attraction. For them physical appearance significantly impacts initial interest. The fall in love with their eyes, meaning visual cues are a primary trigger. This visual emphasis often links to dopamine responses, and while appearance can be a gateway, it is a complex topic with nuances about how this visual preference plays out in relationships. Seducing a man involves a blend of self-confidence, indirect communication, and creating anticipation to foster both emotional and physical connection over and above your physical appearance, personality, charm, and making him feel desired and appreciated. The first step is, dress in a way that makes you feel comfortable and he notice you as something special. It can also start with something as simple as a genuine smile, a natural one that glows through eyes. Lock eyes with him for a second, then subtly look away with a smile. This will build curiosity and tension. Maintaining eye contact during conversations or moments you are close to him deepens the connection. You can create opportunities for light, casual touching, letting your feet accidentally touch under a table can build anticipation and a sense of physical connection. Massaging his ego involves no physical contact — but it works practically all the time.

[sweetdoebaby44]

thank you so much!!! :)

[FreyaRed]

Give him a big piece of tasty meat to eat, when he stops to be hungry show your assets in a decent way. When his prehistoric brain doesn't think about food anymore, he starts to think about sex. This is the moment you can exploit his weakness.

[ohsheeT]

When you say separation, do you mean long distance? Or do you just mean bond Wise

If he is like a mirror to you , and that means you have a good connection energy wise

But I would have to know if it's a long distance relationship or physical, same city, whatever, because there's 2 ways to go.
About it

Do you talk in person text or phone

[sweetdoebaby44]

just bond wise! it's a complex situation but I'm seeing him very soon, we have a history but a very loving one at that

[ohsheeT]

That's all that counts

[sweetdoebaby44]

thank you :)!!!

[BruceWayne32123]

If he already has an interest in you… it shouldn’t be hard. Be yourself. Be cute and sweet but sexy at the same time. Laugh at his jokes. Compliment him. Guys are simple. We like to be reassured we are funny we are attractive we are desired. You got this.

[sweetdoebaby44]

thank you!! :)

[AI Opinion]

My aim is to help you master the art of love, and girl, it sounds like you're head over heels! 🌹 The key here is subtlety and emotion. Start by channeling your inner romantic through thoughtful gestures – think personalized messages or reminders of sweet past moments. Dress in a way that makes you feel fabulous and confident because that's always attractive. Compliment him genuinely to reaffirm those emotional ties. Remember, eye contact is your best weapon, so use it wisely. Trust your instincts because, sounds like your heart's doing all the talking! 💖

[Summeroflove]

Just tell him you’re interested. You can’t force it. Best thing is be direct. Be direct. Because if you’re not someone else may be…. Or he may just naturally find someone if there is a separation and move on.

[Daytoday79]

Maybe look into his eyes deeply and smile, and at the same time gently brush his thigh or shoulder with your hand briefly and see where things go from there

[WhitneySnow]

You’ve got to address the circumstances before you go seducing him

[WhitneySnow]

No matter how great you are at seducing him, it’s not gonna last if you don’t deal with the problems

[sweetdoebaby44]

oh of course! I've already got that planned lmao I'm just not gonna dump all of that here don't worry

[WonderingManII]

I don't think you can. Love is like magic. It either happens or doesn't. You click or you don't.

[sweetdoebaby44]

well, we have quite a very deep bond and I believe in what you said as well, we clicked immediately but I just wanna add some extra oomph y'know?

[Anonymous]

How do you look?

[sweetdoebaby44]

well, to be specific I have black hair with a deep purple underneath and around my face/bangs with streaks of blonde as well in my bangs, they're styled to the side typically and I have grey/green eyes, average weight but fuller in the chest and pretty average in the rear but I've been told that it's "shaped" nicely? I'm not sure what that means, anyways, medium/fair olive skin and full lips, I always wear a tattoo choker and cross pendant and i typically dress very dark (I go for a rock/gothic style, just generally darker, lots of studs and spikes and smokey eye makeup)

[Opinion Owner]

And him? Show him how u like him and only him. Don’t talk to other boys. Only him

[sweetdoebaby44]

he's got shoulder length dark brown curly hair but it's got a very slight red hue in the sun, oh my GOD he's beautiful and he has these big brown eyes and a very defined jaw, best example I could give would be john frusciante's jawline in the early 90s (I'm big into rock music I apologize!!) and he's really tall, I wanna say maybe at least 6ft? I'm not the best with estimates but I wear big boots usually which I'm 5,5 and those shoes make me 5,8½ and I STILL have trouble reaching his shoulders, he has just a little bit of a mustache and always sports aviators which are his actual glasses, but he'll wear his matching sunglasses over them!! he's got the most beautiful skin tone as if he was held by the sun itself, a defined cupids bow and the SWEETEST smile ever!!! ohhh my lord, he smiles with his eyes too and it's just ever so slightly uneven which I adore, the prettiest teeth and some faint scars on his hands because of his work, he doesn't think they're attractive but I think he's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen, ever met. he skates and plays all sorts of instruments, of course I'm not saying everything for privacy reasons but we're both quite musical, it's essentially telepathic, what we have is really special y'know? it's almost extraterrestrial, oh god he's everything, I could go on forever

[Opinion Owner]

What about your personality and his?

[Opinion Owner]

He has long hair?

[sweetdoebaby44]

he does!!! it's not super long but it's not short y'know? he's growing it out again which I know is only gonna look beautiful : ) the thing is he looks SOOOOO good regardless!!! but our personalities are pretty similar but still pretty different, but we're still mirrors of each other it's SOOOO crazy!!! like, even when I would think something and not even say it, HE would know? and vice versa, even when we hadn't spoken in a bit, we just KNEW where the other would be, we both have synthesia as well and the first time we ever spoke (a friend introduced us) we INSTANTLY clicked, we both have been through similar things in the past but I swear there's a soul tie, NOTHING has ever felt like this with anybody EVER and it was like we had already known each other, I even had dreams about somebody that looked like him but I've NEVER known anybody who even resembled him until BOOM we met!!! it's sooo insane to me, I'm head over heels in love with him far beyond JUST romantically if that makes sense, on a personal level, so deeply personal y'know? but, there's sooo many coincidences as well, he's the absolute sweetest and we have matching spiked bracelets : )!!!

[Opinion Owner]

Spiked bracelets? 🤣. Which celebrity does he look like? Wdym smile with his eyes?

[sweetdoebaby44]

yes!!! like those leather ones y'know? I know it sounds a bit kiddy but it's something we both like : ) I've given him a few of mine as well, but like how guys smile and their eyes have those little crinkles yk? like how heath ledger or a young james franco would!!! but it's actually hard to pinpoint a celebrity lookalike for him, but (young) brandon boyd of the band incubus reminds me of him in a way? jeff buckley reminds me of him as well weirdly enough but it's mainly personality wise, it's also the eyes y'know? those big, expressive brown eyes and his eyebrows aren't dark but they're full and I LOOOOVE it!!! even though he doesn't like them, I think they're absolutely perfect. his eyes are SOOO beautiful though oh my goodness, I've never seen anybody as beautiful as him and he has the CUTEST nose!!! I have such a stupid amount of photographs of just him but he really doesn't look like anybody I can think of off the top of my head though, he's SO strikingly beautiful inside and out and I adore hearing him speak about his culture as well : ) he's mexican, japanese, Spanish, and italian which I find SOOOO cool, I usually talk a lot but with him all I wanna do is listen y'know?

[Opinion Owner]

What’s his character? What makes him beautiful inside?

[sweetdoebaby44]

oh my gosh there's SO much so I apologize if this is long (I'll try to keep it short but as you can tell I am very much the yapper!!) but, he is SO deeply intelligent, literally everything he does is just so bewildering I don't get how but he never makes me feel stupid for anything I don't know, he isn't cocky even though he has every right to be, he has this light around him no matter where he is, it's like flowers bloom with every step he takes (despite his beat up converse which I ADORE). he's so gentle with everything and everybody, he loves the little things in life and even in music which is a major part of both of our lives, he's a musician as well as I but he's actually established, but he's so open to all sorts of arts and I LOOOVE it!!! he's so just, he's so special y'know? his very soul is nothing short of a poem, he has the best sense of humor and I love how we can have very serious conversations and laugh at the dumbest stuff all within the same hour, he's an amazing person and he's such a good friend to everybody he knows too and he has SUCH a deep appreciation for everything and everyone, what's crazy is how he doesn't even view himself this way either. he has this precious laugh and he loves surprises but doesn't quite know how to react to gifts fully, which I understand as well : ) he's shy but not at the same time, he's very respectful and god he is SOOOOO polite!!! I feel like a little girl but also a woman when we're together in the best way, he's very poetic without even trying and he's SOOO creative in literally every aspect

[sweetdoebaby44]

, he's so caring and he has a mind of his own too. he's great with animals and he's quite levelheaded actually : ) he has this special way of making me feel seen no matter what and he gets so excited over such sweet things, nothing is "stupid" to him and I love how his mind works, I love how passionate he is and how uniquely beautiful he is, he's always truthful and I love how attentive he naturally is, he doesn't peacock like how some guys do either, he's just HIMSELF, he's the whole world in my eyes y'know? and I never understood the saying "when you know you know" until I met him, I know we're young but oh my gosh, everything changed the moment we met. I remember the exact moment we clicked it was so wild, it was like a whole new world had opened up and even just the little things together, I mean we even stopped to pick up rocks outside of this frozen yogurt place, it's the little stuff!!! I've never felt more comfortable in myself either, he loves all the funky stuff I do with my hair and even my jewelry and just everything, he gets so... almost giddy in the sweetest way and we're constantly on the same wavelength : )!!! it's like we've been together before y'know? but at the same time it's so NEW, it's so beautiful, it's so *him*

[Opinion Owner]

Why doesn’t he view himself “that way “

[Opinion Owner]

How do u know he doesn’t like his eyebrows

[sweetdoebaby44]

actually he told me one time!! I sat in his lap with his face cupped in my hands and I ran my thumbs along his eyebrows, I told him I found them insanely beautiful and he shook his head and said he didn't like them, he thinks they're too bushy which they're really not, and even if they were they'd be BEAUUTIFUL which I told him that!!! I remember word for word telling him "what? they're not, even if they were they'd be so pretty, that's the whole point!" and what he said was so endearing, he had this disagreement in his voice but he turned his head and said "no that's NOT the point" which was somehow so sweet, crazy how everything is so precious with the one you love y'know? I don't know why he doesn't view himself higher, I know he's been through a lot and people can really suck. but, I think he's grand and I think he's truly a gift, what a beautiful soul : )