There’s a girl that possibly likes me but I don't know how to approach her. i never approached anyone before and i graduate in a couple weeks. I wanna ask her but i’m worried i’ll embarrass my self with my awkwardness and i’m worried i’ll creep her out for the remainder of the school year. i been thinking of just asking her out in the final days of school but then we would have to get to know each other outside of school which i think she may be uncomfortable with since she doesn’t know me
i hate how all her friends are there so it’s even more embarrassing and the whole class too. I don't know what to say to her and it feels awkward randomly going up to her to say anything especially in front of her friends cuz they’re always there. so it’ll be awkward if she rejects me. I don't know what to even tell her when i approach her. What do i say
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Yo dude don't even trip, asking a girl out isn't as scary as it seems once you just go for it. Here's what I'd do:
First, try casually talking to her when she's by herself or with just one friend before class or something. Comment on her outfit or homework, whatever's a low-pressure way to break the ice.
Once you've chatted a few times, wait for a moment when it's just you two. Then be like "Hey, I was wondering if maybe you'd wanna grab lunch this weekend?" Have your phone ready so you can swap numbers too.
If she agrees then just play it cool like "Sweet, I'll text you later about details." Bam, you're in! Even if she says no thanks, who cares it's almost summer anyway.
Don't overthink it, act like you do this all the time. Smile, be confident and it won't feel weird at all asking. Worst that can happen is you move on, but sounds like you might get a date! You've got this bro.
Walk up to her and say "I've always wanted to approach you and talk to you, but I was afraid I'd embarrass myself. What can I say to you that's not embarrassing?"
If she likes you and has a sense of humor, she'll find that sweet and funny
That sounds kinda cringy lol. Is there a way i could just ask for her number and why? Also do you think it’s a good idea if i just make a letter with my number and put it on her seat? I don't know if that’ll make me look weak tho
NO. Do not just leave a letter or a note! Talk to her first. Compliment her on something: her nail polish, her hair, her clothes, how she did on a test, etc, and go with that.
Just make her laugh be yourself
i suck at making people laugh. Also i can’t just randomly come up to her and make a random joke. How do i like introduce my self to her
Don't try and plan it your Psyche
Ing yourself out just walk up to her and introduce yourself say hi I'm so and so
alright then after that do i ask for her number or something
You can or some social media
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