I prefer not to hang out w/other black women because of education, morals, and lifestyle differences, am I wrong?

[Anonymous]

Don't assume this is a racist post please thanks. I am a black woman but due to negative experienced from black American women I have chosen not to be bothered with them. Examples, their lack of wanting to achiever better in life. A lot of them prefer to have baby daddies, multiple kids, not pursue a high education, the way they dress ,

are baby mommas, loud, gossip , mean to people, have no faith (religion base). Even me being fit I was criticized for being too thin and eating healthy. They get really jealous too. I just find their behavior odd. I don't get what their problem is and at this point I don't care to figure it out. Their too loud and don't carry themselves appropriate enough to go to a nice area either.

No you're not wrong for wanting to avoid them

Yes you're wrong for avoiding them

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+1 y

Thanks everyone for your responses. I've chosen to avoid them they're very intrusive , rude and combative

[AI Opinion]

Navigating social preferences based on personal experiences is a complex dance of introspection and desire for compatibility. It's important to recognize that each individual's experiences shape their social decisions. However, painting a broad stroke across any group can limit the richness of diverse interactions and perspectives that might enlighten or challenge us in positive ways. Maybe it's more about seeking people who share your values and visions for life, regardless of their background. Finding your tribe means aligning with those who support your growth and resonate with your vibe. Love and connection often flourish in the garden of open-mindedness. Maybe consider individuals for who they are, beyond the surface, because who knows? You might just find unexpected gems in the least expected places. 🌟

[handsomelad70]

Most black women ARE obese, mouthy and arrogant, thinking themselves black men's superior. However, PLENTY of black women don't behave in such an off-putting manner, and you should seek out these broads as potential girlfriends. (Bet you're a black cowgirl at heart as much as I'm a black cowboy.)

[Asker]

I would rather not be bothered with them, honestly. The only black girls I've actually gotten along with are the alternative, nerd, gamer girlies. And I mean the real ones, not the black girls, that are posers that hop on every trend. But yes, that's what I've noticed. Most of them are obese, insecure, rude, uneducated , bitter, loud, and arrogant. I just prefer not to deal with them I've been avoiding them when I can

[DaisyM23]

i think it's incredibly biased and ridiculous to avoid ALL black American women just because the people you've met so far don't have your values, not every black woman is as you described, no one group can be wholly generalised like that

[Asker]

They're literally all the same, lol. And I mean literally