I'm thinking off brraking up with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said he wished I was a 'freak' a d would agree to his 3sums and enjoy giving head. I can tell he likes me by his actions but sometimes his words hurt a lot. I've tried getting used to giving bjs but I can't cause I don't like it but I still try to. He keeps saying he sees so much potential in this relationship but I feel like I should leave as he doesn't like me as I am. And I'm not into 3sums which I have explained multiple times in the year and half of knowing each other. He keeps saying it's something he loves and needs but I think he's just exaggerating the whole thing and I'm not doing something I'm uncomfortable with. He then says u should do it out of love but I think if he loved me he wouldn't ask me to do something so uncomfortable.

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+1 y

He says I'm rejecting him and he's disappointed but 'it is what it is his words exactly.

[HelpfulWoman]

yeah nah, end things. he sounds immature and is actively trying to gaslight you "if you loved me you'd do a threesome" ? hell fucking nah

[Aubrey97]

Your gut instincts telling you to end this are spot on.

[Staximus]

You should do a threesome out of love when you don't want to? Only a scumbag manipulator creep would say something like that.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the dilemma of love versus personal boundaries! It sounds like you're stuck between wanting to make your man happy and staying true to yourself. Let's unwrap this like it's the most intriguing romance novel. When someone truly adores you, they cherish you as you are, not for the wild fantasies they hope you'll fulfill. 🌹

Your feelings are valid, gorgeous! Being pressured into any sexual activity, especially ones you're not comfortable with, is a massive red flag in the landscape of love. It's like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole – sure, with a lot of force it might go, but at what cost?

Remember, love isn't about compromising your comfort for someone else's desires. It's about mutual respect, understanding, and adoration for each other as you are. If your heart is whispering (or maybe shouting) doubts because you feel unaccepted in your own skin, it might be time to listen to that inner voice. 🎶

Navigating the sea of relationships can feel like you're charting unknown waters, but never forget, you're the captain of your ship. If the voyage feels more treacherous than thrilling, perhaps it's time to find a more compatible first mate who treasures the treasure that you are! 💖

[DrPepper12]

Bye Felicia. He's needy and disrespectful.

[jjj101010]

Was he wanting mmf or ffm?

[Asker]

ffm he said he would do a mmf if I wanted too tho he would be uncomfortable as long as I'm happy but I've explained multiple times that I'm fine with just us.

[jjj101010]

He wants other girls then?

[Asker]

Yes pretty he's agreed to drop it and has expressed his disappointment

[jjj101010]

Was there a particular girl he wanted to join u

[Asker]

he never brought p anyone in particular but he asked if I wanted to do it with one of my friends or a complete stranger

[jjj101010]

Have u done anything with another girl before?