I’m thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So when I (20 female) first met him (22 male) neither of us were looking for anything serious. Well now we managed to go through a bunch of stuff together and have been dating for about 2 years. But the last year has felt like hell to me.
When we first met he used to compliment me and he took me on a date once but never really again since then. Now I have to take him to work and to his probation meeting and now he’s about to start therapy so I’m going to have to take him to that too because he can’t drive! It just makes me feel terrible sometimes and then this thing happened about 3 times where he just went off on me about my attitude and telling me I need to try harder so a few weeks ago I tried to talk to him about not feeling right with everything and he started crying hysterically and begging me to stay I said I would but I wanna feel loved so here I am but now I feel like nothing has changed he’s just constantly grabbing me and I feel bad because he’s already had such a rough life but I don’t know what I should do. he never graduated high school and can’t drive till 2027… I just don’t wanna feel like this anymore dose anyone have any advice on anything like this

[bobalife]

It’s never healthy to stay in a relationship because you feel bad for them and guilty. You’re not happy & it sounds like a lonely relationship you’re carrying. Hope you find the strength within you to walk away. He’s an adult, let him learn to be independent and also I’m sure he can find his own support for these things. You’re not his mom nor responsible for his life choices and consequences.

[molonski2]

OMG , just get rid of him , probation? banned from driving for years? Not remotely self sufficient? And a crude , rude , using arsehole..

He should be acting like a man , he is not..

Piss him off.

[RHK36]

Break up and move on. Easy way out is break up and rebound with a friends with benefits. Either way you're better off without him because he's toxic trash.

[MicahRaine]

He's your boyfriend, not your husband. If he's treating you poorly now, imagine how much worse it will be when he doesn't need you for transportation!

[DtMe89]

Good, i hope you do break up

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, then do it

[In_Trance]

So break up