Girls, stay at home moms if you have cheated why?

[Anonymous]

Did you feel bad? Did you feel like you lost a connection with your husband while hee working and even when he’s home being so busy with the kids that…. You just grew apart. You needed excitement you wanted to explore

[Anonymous]

Honestly we had a bad foundation to begin with. A lot Less sex. Less spending time together because of the baby. Him not being home, maybe he's depressed as a first time dad. Found someone else who really sparked my interest. I'm on the fence whether to break my family up or to stay and be miserable.

[Asker]

Yeah I get it. Tired after work. No real passion for sex. A BJ or maybe vanilla intercourse

[Asker]

But like. Once he finishes he’s done and you’re craving more.

Focusing on the kids is the most important thing though

[Asker]

Whether he is depressed or not he is supposed to be a MAN! And step up!

I also see a lot of men think they don’t have to contribute anything around the house anymore just because their wife stays home. The wife needs a break just like he does.

[Opinion Owner]

My partner is a really good partner and dad he just does the bare minimum and I want someone to pour into my cup like I do for him he just doesn't get it I don't think .. I don't know... but we've just gotten lazy with eachother

[Asker]

No he’s the man. The man is the one to bear the burden of the relationship and provide a life for you. If that’s “one sided and unfair” cry a River. Life isn’t fair.

You have standards. That he refuses to meet

[Asker]

The sex life is also important. When it’s vanilla and you’re left there hanging. But he gets off and rolls over and goes to sleep. What fun is that? You wanna explore. You wanna try new things.

[Opinion Owner]

I actually don't mind vanilla sex. I'd prefer doggy style with hard pounding for 10 15 min I'm good lol

[Asker]

Lol. But I mean a lot of guys don’t last that long and it’s no secret women last longer in bed. Eventually 15 minutes in bed gets old.

You need someone to spice it up again. You’re kinda doing him a favor if you’re more passionate about sex because you’re enjoying it. Rather then just feeling obligated

[Opinion Owner]

Well I feel obligated lately. He only lasts for 2 min😮‍💨

[Asker]

Yeah…. Sigh. I mean you deserve to get off too right not just him

[Asker]

Besides. I mean even if he could last 15 minutes you still wanna explore

[Opinion Owner]

Explore in what way? I honestly enjoy missionary and doggy style that's about it. No 3 sums I don't like sharing

[Asker]

I mean exploring fantasies and new things…. I gotta be careful what I say lol

[Asker]

I’m not saying you don’t enjoy that. But the same old same old gets old.

[Opinion Owner]

Not to mee lol

[Asker]

At the end of the day. He lasts 2 minutes and rolls over and sleeps. You at least deserve to get off lol.

[Opinion Owner]

He always makes sure I orgasm but I don't want it from head I need dick

[Asker]

I mean you have your imagination. You can always imagine yourself in different situations. But it has to be passionate or it’s just boring sad and pathetic

[Opinion Owner]

I agree

[Asker]

But then again. Sometimes just the fantasy isn’t enough. Ya know? Sometimes it’s good to go out of your comfort zone. Even once…. To try new things

[Asker]

But nonetheless. I don’t think hee a amazing partner. I think he does the bare minimum. Divorce is hard. People say “just divorce” and they never been in that situation.

Divorce is scary. Divorce can cost you everything. Divorce can hurt the children more. Divorce can ruin a reputation.

[Asker]

You can’t just go out and be homeless because he chooses to not be a man. He wanted marriage and kids. But doenst follow through.

Besides. If one day he gets his act together. You can stop seeing whoever and pretend it never happened. Divorce is not reversible. Remarrying maybe. But even that’s

[Opinion Owner]

You're right he does the bare minimum but it's partly my fault and his. My therapist asked if she could talk to the both of us but I passed on the opportunity. Then I asked him if he'd go to therapy and he passed on the idea. I tell him I'm unhappy all the time and he doesn't try to do what I tell him makes me happy. I'm all fat now from my pregnancy and mental health I feel if I leave him no one will want me plus I heard there's piss in the dating pool. There's not much out here. So I might as well stick with him

[Opinion Owner]

I want my kid to have both parents together. But if I'm lucky to find someone who adores me and the sex is great and etc my kid will have more people who love him

[12karen]

No, I'm not married but if that happens, I'll try to share with him what I feel

[Asker]

Probably the best thing to do. But not everyone is like that

[12karen]

Yeah, I know, sometimes it's hard to confess our feeling, but it is always worth a try

[Asker]

Yes. Better then being a coward