Girls, Why do you or did you cheat?

[Anonymous]

You may go anonymous

[itsannalee]

I don’t and did not cheat, if i feel tired or feel something won’t work i just break up and leave.

[Asker]

That’s what people should do. But narcissists are still gaining something from the relationship they don’t want to let go of.

[WhitneySnow]

I never have

[Anonymous]

I cheated one years ago when I was in my early 20's. This was my first adult relationship. I cheated because I was growing, expanding and moving on from him. He was stuck in his ways. I hurt him, though I wanted out and felt stuck, I stayed loyal another year, until finally we broke it off.

[Asker]

Did you feel bad for cheating? Did he ever find out? And who was it with

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, he found out. I did feel bad, I had already fallen out of love. Well I was 22 years old, it was NYE he wants to stay in and cook. I was young and wanted to go out have fun. A girlfriend of mine invites me to this NYE ball at a Hotel with all men in the service, it was free. We had a 4 course meal, open bar and dancing. I met an attractive man in uniform, i was buzzed, he had a room at the hotel. I let the night take me where it did. When I got home, my boyfriend had locked me out. He suspected I cheated..

[Asker]

We as people do some stupid, hurtful, cowardly, and sometimes downright horrible things. But what does matter is if people can see what rheh did wrong feel and and make amends.

Some people never do they only double down and get worse. A lot of people excuse things to make themselves feel better until they no longer feel anything

[Asker]

But at least that was the end of a relationship where nobody was happy.

[Anonymous]

There are two different types of cheaters...

The ones that can't feel ANYTHING, their numb and lack empathy. They chase after pleasure most likely to feel something. And then... the ones that feel insecure. They don't feel good enough for their partner. Probably emotionally abused.

[Asker]

It’s never a excuse but some cheaters who have empathy aren’t even in abusive relationships. They ger bored in the bedroom or meet someone else whose attractive. And…. The opportunity arises they feel horrible after

[Asker]

But a lot are just narcissists

[Opinion Owner]

I cheated once. Nothing physical, it was an online thing. I did it because I felt like I wasn't worthy of my partner at the time. I got pretty depressed watching red pill content which I was addicted to.

[Opinion Owner]

*They're not their

[Crazzyyworld]

I felt that i was going to because my boy frirnd was so nice and caring but i needed someone sexual. I didn't fool around but my boy friend did a little bit

[Priya99999]

I don't think I've ever cheated on the man of my dreams

[Pupweb]

Never cheated