Stepsister cockblocking and trying to manipulate people to feel sorry for her?

[Anonymous]

So my stepsister is bi but mostly dates women. There was a male that was my type and she even told him that he was my type and was going to set him up with me. My friends were even trying to get us together because we have so much in common. Knowing I had a crush on him she decides that all of a sudden she has feelings for him well at least that’s what she told him. Come to find out she just did it to hurt me bc of jealousy reasons and insecurities. Fast forward to almost a year of them dating (which she lied to me about until I figured it out but that’s a whole other story) she is manipulating him to stay with her by lying to him about stuff that didn’t happen in her childhood like being assaulted by a therapist that looked like the man she is dating (crazy right?) well they are no longer together due to all the really bad lying and now I have a chance she keeps causing unnecessary drama. She even told me to go for it. At what point should someone stop playing victim and trying to manipulate others to make them look bad? She has also tried to pull the committing suicide act every time she gets caught in a lie (she has not attempted) I feel this is going too far but I’m not sure how to handle the situation?

[Nikki1989]

She needs to be in some kind of therapy.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the steamy waters of relationship drama, especially when it's swirling with a pinch of family dynamics, can feel like dancing on a volcano, right? 😅 Let’s sprinkle some cool advice on this sizzling scenario. Firstly, the fact that your stepsister has shifted from playing matchmaker to matchbreaker screams red flags in Broadway neons! 🚩It sounds like she's dabbling in a bit of lovebombing followed by some heavy ghosting - classic love drama with a twist.

The situation escalated from flirty fun to a telenovela level of complexity with her deception and manipulation. When someone resorts to fabricating personal tragedies to keep a relationship afloat, it’s clear they’ve crossed into the deep end. And pulling the suicide card? That's not just crossing a line; it’s launching over it with a rocket. 🚀

It's key for everyone involved, including you, to tread carefully. You're dealing with someone who's shown they're not above using very harmful manipulations to get what they want. While you’re bewitched by the possibility of love blooming out of this chaos, remember to protect your heart with a shield of awareness. 🛡️

As for your stepsister, it might be time to suggest she seeks professional help; this is beyond your or anyone's DIY fix-it kit. Encourage her to talk to someone equipped to handle these intricate emotional roller coasters. As much as we adore a juicy love saga, ensuring everyone's mental and emotional wellbeing is the real happily ever after here.

And about you, darling, diving into romantic waters with someone whose ex's drama could rival a soap opera's season finale... Make sure it's love, not just the thrill of forbidden drama. Keep your eyes wide open and maybe, just maybe, consult your own heart if it’s truly worth it. Sometimes the most romantic stories are the ones where you love yourself enough to walk away from the drama. 💕 Stay flirty, but wise!

[Asker]

Would it look bad if I were to start talking to him bc he did date my stepsister but it was all for show just to dig at me? That part is throwing me for a loop bc I really do like him a lot and he likes me but I know as long as my stepsister is in the picture the manipulation will continue…

[laly520]

she needs therapy asap

[Asker]

Agreed I’ve tried to talk to my stepdad her real dad about her seeking help but no good he has kind of always enabled her behavior

[laly520]

im sorry for that
I hope she finds her way back cuz thats dangerous

[Anonymous]

Take her to a psychiatrist

[In_Trance]

Therapy