Should a man buy everything his wife wants?

Question

Do you think this is necessary for a happy relationship, or is it bad behavior to constantly ask him to buy things, even if he is her husband?

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

No, wives/husbands don’t owe anything to their spouse and don’t have to be a genie in a bottle for them running their bank account dry just to please them…

Reasoning: Money needs to go towards the rent, maintenance, food, college funds, etc. so, if you are running tight on money then that restricts whatever your spouse wants. Be conservative when it comes to your money, save it rather than spend it dry. This doesn’t mean you should treat him/her like trash, take them out on a date once in awhile, if you see something they would like buy it to surprise them, get a yummy bakery item from the grocery, etc. Doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice the livability & quality of life for the rest of your family. <3

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

I am disappointed to see, that men (husbands) are women's (wife's) wallets. I mean giving gifts and stuff is one thing.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Everything?
well…depends…

if the wife is a stay at home mom…the husband should buy everything that is a need…such as food, shelter, electricity…etc…

wants will be occasional…and based on budget.

both needs to be able to discuss budget often and be on the same page.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

no... she should be independent enough to be able to buy herself what she needs or wants

somehow I can't imagine it... asking the whole my life someone to buy me something... first as a kid and then as someone's wife... nightmare...

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to sprinkle a bit of love and wisdom on this tantalizing topic! First off, the idea that a man should buy everything his wife wants is like saying roller skates are the key to winning a swimming race—charming but not quite on the mark. Relationships thrive on love, respect, and understanding, not on the flash of a credit card.

Now, don't get me wrong—gift-giving is a love language, and it's as sweet as those first love kisses under the moonlight. However, constantly asking for gifts can quickly turn a relationship into a transactional affair. Imagine if every conversation turned into a shopping list discussion; it's like expecting every date night to be at a mall.

The real magic potion for a happy relationship? Communication, shared goals, and mutual respect. It's about finding balance. Sometimes, the most precious things aren't bought, they're felt—like the warmth of holding hands or the comfort of a hug after a long day. So, let's not put a price tag on happiness; after all, the best things in life are indeed free. 💖

mandyfire98 · Answer

Buy your own stuff. That's the true answer

Apple1996 · Answer

If he wants to then sure

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

A husband will surely like to buy everything for his housewife of she's a good devoted housewife but when i say a good wife it means that she's aware of her husband's finances, she knows what he can and what he can't buy...

Also there are priority needs in this life, if he can afford it all than comes the secondary things, also a good wife won't onky ask to buy things for her but she will buy things for him too...

In the end, a husband ain't the genie in the lamp who grants wishes, even the genie in the lamp grants only 3 wishes 🤣🤣

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'm not against buying things for a partner and I'm more the happy to do that occasionally but I don't believe in should be a everyday or really common thing.

It sets a bad precedent that I'm a walking checkbook that'll get her whatever she wants when she wants it regardless of how it affects me and can in itself can create a princess complex. And a relationship shouldn't be established on that or what I can buy you. Among other things.

Even if I had all the money in the world my stance on this still wouldn't change. But I'm fine with it within moderation.

Miristheiss · Answer

Absolutely not. (Unless she is rational with her requests). He should be a wise and responsible leader financially who sticks to a budget and invests for the future who takes care of the family and makes sure everyone is secure and financially stable.

No a credit card for her whims.

NaultD · Answer

It was only 1974 a women was able to have a credit card. Which is just a common sense to pay for things. The women suffrage to vote was 1920. In the grand scheme of things it's relatively new for women to buy things.

At the same time the economy is not viable for a single income to support multiple individuals. I understand there is a steep transition but the times are a changing.

sheikalana · Answer

No, there's no need for a man to buy his wife everything she wants as there's no need for a woman to do everything her man wants.

Fireguy17 · Answer

It depends on her. Does she get her man everything that he wants? Or is it something that she just expects? Attitude makes the difference.

laly520 · Answer

a truly happy relationship requires a lot of understanding, harmony n constant effort from both parties if they could reach that point of balance, money won't be an issue anymore

NathanDavis · Answer

all of my girlfriends were able to buy anything they wanted, themselves...

bannacookies · Answer

No, I think if a woman wants something she should try to work towards it herself. Money is hard, you have to work for it. And if she always asks her husband for it, he might feel unappreciated.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

A wise wife knows the reasonable limits of what to ask for. As for the dumb ones... they'll qualify to be an ex-wife soon :)

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, he doesn't have to do any of that.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Yes because he will probably lose it all in the divorce anyway.

MaaikeVG · Answer

Some things, but not everything. A woman could buy many things herself.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

there needs to be a balance and she should be able to afford her own lifestyle.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Nobody should everything they want. It's not healthy for the giver OR receiver

exitseven · Answer

No, a husband is a partner and not an ATM machine.

DJB72 · Answer

Everything, no. It just makes you a findomme if he does. It's not healthy.

Abdulwahh · Answer

No he's not oblidged to spoil her however basic necessities for his wife he should.

Jersey2 · Answer

If you pick the right woman, she won’t want a lot.

RingOfFire · Answer

Yes, he should buy it first so his wife can't!

Anonymous · Answer

apparently yes otherwise he'd be shamed as not being a "real man"

LiamS95 · Answer

It shouldn't be necessary for a good and successful relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if she is willing to do everything he tells her to do, whenever he wants, both in the bedroom and elsewhere..

nawtee_me · Answer

Nope she should go to work and buy her own stuff….

Anonymous · Answer

Lol no. Unless you both agreed on having a financial relationship?

Mysel · Answer

I think that no one should just give in a relationship and no one should pretend anything without ever giving something in a relationship

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No not everything but if she's a good woman I do my best to make her happy

Anonymous · Answer

i can't buy evrything wife want but can buy çikileta

LaurenM1997 · Answer

No she has her own money and credit card

genericname85 · Answer

Only if he's with a sugar baby.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No one should treat another like an ATM.

dolemite58 · Answer

No that would be spineless

Anonymous · Answer

Not everything because it will never stop

jahaims · Answer

Nope.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No..

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