Is it easy or difficult for you to find a relationship? Why?

[Anonymous]

[Ευδεμονια]

I’ve never been in a sentimental relationship but I can say it’s very hard to me to meet and keep new people.
I’ve always been alone, and I feel secure in my routine and in my spaces so it’s hard for me to go out from the track. I have low self esteem and this makes me very timid and awkward, I also tend to judge a lot myself so I prefer to keep me out from the risk of a harsh self judgement.
I know perfectly it won’t help in finding a person or having a relationship, but I hope some day I’ll be able to change the way I am… or at least find the reason to.

[HawkPerception]

Extremely difficult. First off, I'm not where I want to be in life and not financially independent as of yet. Secondly, most girls nowadays don't seem to have the qualities I want in a girl. If we have similar views, interests, sense of humor, communication style, goals in life, sexual compatibility and are both physically attracted to each other, that would be perfect. Sadly there aren't many people like me out there it seems

[sage2021]

It always seems like when I wasn't looking for a guy or a relationship, BAM! That's when I would end up with one.

And who says "You'll never meet a guy just staying in your house. You gotta get out there to meet them"?
I met my last boyfriend, Patrick right down the hall from my apartment. I met another guy that was my neighbor right across the street. I met one at work. I met my 2nd husband at another apartment a few yards away from mine. He was on vacation for the summer staying with his sister, who was my friend and neighbor.
🤷🏼‍♀️

[ShellyB]

Well I have been in a relationship now for several years so I have not tried to get in a relationship since I am already in one, but answering for prior to that, being in “a relationship” was v. easy, the difficult part was being in a GOOD relationship, most of my effort was about avoiding situations I did not think would work vs seeking situations, situations found me and I tried to pick. Sometimes I picked wrong :( But the last time I picked right and I guess that is what matters most.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the world of love and relationships, I find myself contentedly married, which makes the hunt for a new relationship not on my to-do list. But, spinning the wheel of fortune back to my single days, I'd say the difficulty level depends largely on how you play the game and where you're looking. Being a relationship coach has shown me that finding love requires knowing yourself, understanding what you're looking for, and, more importantly, putting out those good vibes and genuine connections. In the wild adventure of dating, it's not just about finding someone; it's about finding the right one. So, sharpen those flirting skills, sprinkle a little bit of humor, and let the magic happen. 😉

[handsomelad70]

Difficult because of my tendency to find it a bit difficult to talk to women.

[Finchie40]

Nowadays difficult because of how society is today , finding someone that wants a traditional relationship today is sadly harder to come by , It seems most people want their cake and want to eat it to , that do not know how to give the same way they want to receive. I still have hope that it’s out there but so far I am not having really any luck. Sadly it’s easier to get laid , then to find a loving heart it seems

[dustybiker2]

It's much easier if you are genuine. Too many people play games or read dating books and think this applies. At the end of the day people want to come home to a safe and comfy place and be with a person who gets them. You can't reach that any other way than being genuine from the start.

[dustybiker2]

So yes, easy.

[dustybiker2]

Easy because honesty usually encourages honesty back. And thats a great foundation.

[sheenagwapa]

nope if i have money on my own... i am super broke and so i cannot afford to look good. i want work but it keep gwtting vlocked.


people have been shitting on me left and right i was too nice, tol good. i don't know if i can teust people again


i hate people i hate human beings

[Loner111]

Difficult due to many behaviors being considered sexual harassment, inappropriate, grounds for restraining orders.

He's comes across as too fast, too soon.

He won't stop staring at me... If u do the right thing, but at the wrong time, the girl will ghost.

It's complicated. Foreign women may be better in many ways...

[provokeesmokee]

I thought it was hard but it actually has been very easy.

Well, not really. It is easy now because of the hard work and hard times I've endured before.

[Nikki1989]

It has always been so easy. Even now, as a married woman, I still am approached all the damn time.

[Jrg98]

Easy to find just anyone because I’m large chested but hard to find a good one 😔

[sage2021]

@jrg98
I thought you said you are married.🤔

[Jrg98]

@sage2021
In my younger years it’s always been the case, my husband is pretty good but we butt heads a lot!

[BonzoInBitburg]

It used to be difficult but it's easy now. It just took a while to figure it out.

[CallmeTheKnight]

I don’t believe it entirely difficult for me. I don’t believe every woman deserves access to me as I require kindness as a genuine trait

[nightowl_28]

Difficult, I'm socially awkward and objectively physically unattractive to women

[Anonymous]

Always been difficult. Recently I’ve been noticed more by younger women- which has been strange, but I haven’t approached anyone in probably close to a decade.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult I'm probably ugly