So how far have people planned ahead to visit someone if they are in a long distance relationship? 2 months? 4 months? Longer … thanks

6 months tops. LDR rarely work out.

I don’t think thats a wise decision

Close the distance before even starting it.

Just answering so it stops coming on my feed

Plan for that impending break up.

How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 10)

Finfin1981

Xper 5 Age: 45

Post Opinion

134 likes

Ask to an AI Persona

All

Laura

Have questions about GirlsAskGuys? I'm here to help!

Athletic Chloe

Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...

Cinematic Lily

With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...

Gamer Bella

With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...

Travel Buddy

I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...

James The Foodie

From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...

Advisor Smith

With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...

Fashionista Amy

I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒

Love Doctor Brad

Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...

What Girls & Guys Said

318

Opinion

462

Opinion

Show Popular Opinions(540)

Yannae Follow
Yoda Age: 25

+1 y
474 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Too far to go through it all.

0

0 Reply
Texaskid1 Follow
Guru Age: 49

+1 y
388 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

6 months tops. LDR rarely work out.

0

0 Reply
CallmeTheKnight Follow
Yoda Age: 33

+1 y
662 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

I don’t think thats a wise decision

0

0 Reply
DeliaAgain Follow
Xper 1 Age: 21

+1 y

Like a month probably

2

0 Reply
Anonymous
(18-24)

2 mo

Close the distance before even starting it.

0

0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)

1 y

No need to plan is best.

0

0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)

1 y

Just answering so it stops coming on my feed

0

0 Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)

+1 y

Plan for that impending break up.

0

0 Reply
413kim Follow
Xper 1 Age: 18

3 mo

only a few weeks

0

0 Reply
LC75LC71 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 47

7 mo

Really far! Get it?

0

0 Reply
Lucianmagnus Follow
Xper 2 Age: 38

8 mo

tbh like 30 days or so or maybe 45

0

0 Reply
SoccerPlayer99 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 40

1 y

I wouldn't. LDRs are a recipe for indefinitely.

0

0 Reply
Wiredone Follow
Guru Age: 58

1 y
638 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

At least a year

0

0 Reply
SexyPulse Follow
Xper 1 Age: 24

1 y

Never been in one so i dont know

0

0 Reply
TracyWants Follow
Xper 3 Age: 24

1 y

A few months at least

0

0 Reply
Jakefromstatefarm6 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 38

1 y

I've never had a LDR work out

0

0 Reply
WowGIrl4ever Follow
Xper 4 Age: 36

1 y

Six months to a year

0

0 Reply
SoJust Follow
Explorer Age: 27

+1 y

I don't know what LDR is

0

0 Reply
dudeinohio Follow
Master Age: 61

+1 y
3.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

None. Shouldn't be in an ldr to begin with.

0

0 Reply
Uptowngirl88 Follow
Explorer Age: 33

+1 y

Why are you going to him?

0

0 Reply
u
Iron_Man Follow
Mentor Age: 47

+1 y
11.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Just go with the flow

0

0 Reply
Jamie05rhs Follow
Master Age: 39

+1 y
3.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

As far as you need to and want to.

0

0 Reply
LiamJHayden Follow
Master Age: 31

+1 y
3.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

I would not get into a LDR.

0

0 Reply
HurremSultan Follow
Xper 4 Age: 29

+1 y

I don't plan in ldr because it's uncertain

1

0 Reply
NorthBaddiexo Follow
Xper 1 Age: 20

+1 y

Like I don't know a few months to be safe

1

0 Reply
CupOfCoffee01 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 25

2 mo

As soon as you find out I believe.

0

0 Reply
Alexson_stormzy Follow
Xper 4 Age: 57

3 mo

Personal time interval

0

0 Reply
lessthansane Follow
Xper 4 Age: 42

4 mo

Have similar goals and that’s enough

0

0 Reply
karlaatsd Follow
Xper 2 Age: 18

5 mo

Couple months is ok

0

0 Reply
Qiero Follow
Xper 1 Age: 28

6 mo

I don’t get how they workout tbh

0

0 Reply
HowlPenDragon Follow
Xper 1 Age: 21

9 mo

It depends how long you've been in the LDR.

0

0 Reply
Zira2211 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 35

11 mo

Maybe a month! LDR is not a guarantee

0

0 Reply
Genzet Follow
Xper 2 Age: 29

1 y

I don't do ldr

0

0 Reply
dougeats Follow
Xper 7 Age: 25

1 y

dont they never work

0

0 Reply
Arcadian222 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 31

1 y

Not too far. Give it time

0

0 Reply
Blackcat1952 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 55

1 y

Not yet my pet 😕 so
Some day Maybe

0

0 Reply
Andylakes96 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 30

1 y

6 months for me

0

0 Reply
Diӏdophobe Follow
Xper 1 Age: 34

1 y

Ldr makes no sense

0

0 Reply
PirateMike12 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 19

1 y

Couple months maybe

0

0 Reply
Raaj4you Follow
Yoda Age: 33

1 y

I month ahead is more than enough.

0

0 Reply
Sammygirl9287 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 15

1 y

Maybe like 2 months

0

0 Reply
bralesswonder Follow
Xper 3 Age: 35

1 y

LDR isn't a real relationship

0

0 Reply
PaleDale Follow
Xper 6 Age: 31

1 y

Just take things as they come

0

0 Reply
gintare_764 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 27

1 y

It's fucks so no need to do that

0

0 Reply
Zoe04 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 21

1 y

At least a month to 6 months.

0

0 Reply
KatieK92 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 35

1 y

Plan a good buy ahead

0

0 Reply
JessAlb Follow
Xper 1 Age: 33

1 y

Yep and more yes

0

0 Reply
blackeagle007 Follow
Yoda Age: 45

1 y
313 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Not for me but to each their own

0

0 Reply
CVNT5 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 30

+1 y

ummm... ldr does not work.

0

0 Reply
Titus_of_Ultramar Follow
Xper 3 Age: 22

+1 y

LDR's are for idiots they never work

0

0 Reply
anastasia_521 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 27

+1 y

It has lots of pain

0

0 Reply
Walksbehindtherows Follow
Xper 6 Age: 23

+1 y

I am against flirting

0

0 Reply
Narina Follow
Xper 3 Age: 19

+1 y

2 months in my opinion

0

0 Reply
sethtav Follow
Xper 7 Age: 24

+1 y

2 months sounds fine to me

0

0 Reply
KrakenAttackin Follow
Master Age: 47

+1 y
3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

An LDR is not a relationship.

0

0 Reply
OddBeMe Follow
Master Age: 42

+1 y
2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Far enough to get a new mate.

0

0 Reply
Asian-male Follow
Xper 3 Age: 37

+1 y

I think two months are enough

0

0 Reply
onecuriousguy2454 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 22

8 mo

Maybe maximum 3 months

0

0 Reply
Love2Watch Follow
Xper 4 Age: 42

11 mo

stupid question. no more that 5 years

0

0 Reply
Nice222 Follow
Guru Age: 55

11 mo
760 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Not very far.

0

0 Reply
Show More (180)

Home > Relationships > Questions > How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR?

How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 10)

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.