My boyfriend said its okay to work late at nights. Do you all agree?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend works in the afternoons and i work late at nights from 8pm-4am. And he says nothing is wrong with that. Do you all agree? My sister drives me to work because he nor i have a car.

[provokeesmokee]

I think he doesn't mind but I can assure you that life is better generally if you and your loved one share similar schedules.

Unless you have zero options, I'd suggest looking for a job that works similar hours to your boyfriend. Go for something slightly higher paying if you can so you and he can sace for a car

[b_lova]

I worked a shift like yours once and loved it. I had the day to do stuff. There is nothing wrong with that shift as long as you are not working at a convenience store where you could be held at gunpoint.

My mom was an RN and worked nights so she would be home for us during the day when we were kids. Nothing wrong with you working late shifts.

[Flatmanlewis]

Is it okay? Yeah. Sure. Why wouldn’t it be? Some careers just have shift work as an unavoidable aspect of them. Everything from nursing to policing to fast food to piloting to a hundred other professions. So long as the trade off balances out then it’s worth it.

[DishLady]

Why do you need everyone’s approval to live your life? Stop seeking approval…

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the pool of late-night shifts and love, it seems like you've got a unique situation on your hands, but isn't that what makes the world spin 'round in exciting ways? Your boyfriend’s cool vibe about your nocturnal work hours shouts volumes about trust and understanding in your relationship – definitely a heart-throbbing green flag! 🚦💚 As long as this arrangement keeps you both smiling and your relationship thriving, then it's like hitting the jackpot on a slot machine of love. Just make sure to carve out quality time together, amidst the tick-tock of differing schedules. And hey, having a sister as your nightly carriage driver? Sounds like family love is also in the air! Keep communicating, keep loving, and let those midnight stars witness your beautiful journey. 🌙✨

[Flatmanlewis]

Gee Brad, have you ever had to work late shift hours?

[SotiCoto]

Diving. Take a shot.

[Makeushiver]

It sounds like it could get to be a little wacky. It would need to be a healthy relationship before schedule considerations since you won't be seeing that much of each other the temptation to get a little on side will be pretty prominent in both of your cases

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... if that's when you work, that's when you work. It's not when I would prefer to work, but I'm me and you are you.

It's a job, at the end of the day. And working a job with inconvenient hours is better than not working, usually.

[IslaTheWitch]

my ex also worked at nights... it's a personal preference

[mattthefatbat]

As long as you're happy with your job and love life

[Staximus]

You or your bum boyfriend need to get a car, it's unreasonable to expect your sister to pick you up at 4am unless you are paying her bills or something

[bobby_bush_eater]

It's tough but there's nothing wrong with it. I worked an overnight shift in the military with no schedule working anywhere from 10pm to 11am.

I got used to it 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Yes... that is a typical graveyard shift for MANY people. Working late nights is perfectly fine!

[CrabCakes11]

That’s fine. What would be wrong with it?

[exitseven]

When do you see each other?

[stvigor]

Depends what you do for work

[In_Trance]

Wtf even is this?

[tempirl2012]

What's wrong with it?

[In_Trance]

You're doing it!!! Now you're asking if it's ok? Why on Earth would it not be?