Girls, Is being respectful to a woman a bad thing when dating?

[Anonymous]

I've heard from other guys to basically treat a woman like crap when dating. Call her names, say as much vulgar sex stuff as you can and as soon as you can touch her boobs legs or crotch. and put her down a lot. That may work on some women but how do women really react to a guy like that? Especially if you just met. I want to be myself. Sweet respectful and keep my hands to myself. Be nice and kind. I want a good relationship not a one night stand. Am I wrong for being myself. I prefer to talk about common interests. Like books or music. I also don't use swear words much but a lot of guys I've seen every other word is f*ck. Should I do what other guys do or be myself?

[mandyfire98]

If you try to act like an asshole we'll see it from a mile away. Every woman knows what negging is and what it looks like.

[DishLady]

No, being respectful is expected.


Guys who treat girls poorly are called jerks… dbags… and a plethora of other things.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Oh lord. Be yourself. All this negging bs is total crap. I promise you if you act that way you won't be getting any affection from most women.

[Anonymous]

Be yourself. This whole girls like assholes thing is extremely overblown.