Which is considered more respectful when approaching a woman?

[KrakenAttackin]

Approaching a woman you find attractive and asking for her PHONE NUMBER.

Approaching a woman you find attractive and asking for her SNAP CHAT.

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2 mo

So, it seems that any girl who is a regular of Snap Chat probably isn't wife material.

[Laciejordan]

I would say, after a small chat with me, ask for my phone number. I don’t have Snapchat and a lot of other girls might not.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Laciejordan. And that gets to the heart of the question. Is Snapchat mostly to exchange nudes?

[Laciejordan]

I don’t know what it is to be perfectly honest. I don’t know of anyone that has it but Snapchat and instagram seem really popular on here. Lol I constantly see people promoting it.

[Beckybooboo]

I had Snapchat for about a week. I joined it when a friend went to college and we figured we stay in touch on it. It is bad! Every morning when I would log in, there would be a hundred nudes and messages from perverts, mostly women. I was told that they were all spammers. That for every one real account, there’s ten fake ones. It is mainly for nudes, in answer to your question @KrakenAttackin

[Laciejordan]

@Beckybooboo 🤣 I hear Reddit is pretty bad also. I’ve never been on it but have heard people are constantly sending nudes. I haven’t had any problems on here.

[Beckybooboo]

Wally was on Reddit for a few days before he got banned for life 😂😂. I guess there is a lot of nudes sent. I haven’t had any problems on here either.

[RMSTitanic]

Ask Wally for his nudes lmao

[KrakenAttackin]

@Beckybooboo Ok thanks. Would it be reasonable to say that any one who has a snap chat, that is a red flag?

[Beckybooboo]

I would say possibly…. I mean, when I joined, my intentions were good and I’m sure a lot of girls are the same but if they’ve been on it for a lengthy period of time, I would question their intentions. Like I said, I stopped after a few days.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Beckybooboo Makes sense.

[IslaTheWitch]

the most respectful would be to invest some time to get to know her and let her know you before making any requests...

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch. You and I are old school, and I agree completely with this. My question came from a snippet of a video where some (much younger) women expressed an interest in giving out Snap Chat vs. Phone number.

[dynamicyandere]

Asking to exchange numbers is more respectful I’d say.


Asking for their ShapChat isn’t inherently disrespectful, but that platform is also associated with NSFW content, so it may come off as sleazy.


Phone numbers are and always have been neutral.


Even if you have modest intentions with SnapChat, depending on who you ask, it might be taken the wrong way.

[Apple1996]

Never approach a woman. If she wanted you she'd approach you first

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. Girl, why you gotta troll so hard? What if a brotha is tryna build a roster?

[Apple1996]

A guy trying to build a roster should use snap 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. Now that makes sense.

[dolemite58]

So women actually should be the ones approaching guys? 🤔

[Apple1996]

@dolemite58 yes ofc! Relationships are more successful when women make the first move

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. I might agree with that.

[Apple1996]

I approached my man first. Forced him to give me his number 😅

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. Good for you! A woman's odds of being rejected is so miniscule when she (gently) approaches a man.

[Apple1996]

I'm not gentle about it 😌

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. 😱😱😱😱😱

[dolemite58]

Forced 🤣 that just made me think of this https://youtu.be/JloGJhhF2ss?si=mnJwmVSaNhSUpIDP

[Apple1996]

@dolemite58 that's exactly how I force men to give me things 🔫

[Staximus]

In most cultures and places in the world, the woman expects the man to approach and will not approach first

[Apple1996]

@Staximus that is true but I think in most modern places women get the ick when men approach them

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. I saw a video where a guy was listing all the different things that give women the "ick". The crazy shit women come up with. One girl said she gets the "ick" when a guy USES HIS TURN SIGNALS, as that's soooooo feminine. 😏😏😏

[Apple1996]

Haha the guy with the list 🤣 I love those videos. I like the one about the girl getting a ick from guys coming out of starbucks drinking a frap.
by the way I never use my signals so I must be manly

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. As a former traffic cop, use your damn signals.

[KrakenAttackin]

Pretty please

[Apple1996]

I got in a accident from using my signal so I cannot do it anymore

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. What? That's crazy girl. Explain that.

[Apple1996]

Haha so I was going to turn onto a street, put my signal on and someone coming out of the gas station thought I was turning into there instead and ended up t boning my car. Almost totaled it completely 😔

[PavlovsCogk]

Hell, when it comes to approaching a woman and showing respect, it's all about using your spicy stick of charm and love muscle of courtesy. Instead of going for the wang-doodle of snap chat, opt for the pocket rocket of asking for her phone number. This approach shows that you're interested in getting to know her on a deeper level, rather than just seeking a quick sausage of satisfaction. By using the meat missile of conversation and the bratwurst of blissful communication, you can create a connection that goes beyond the surface level. Remember, it's important to treat women with respect and not just view them as a chorizo of cheer to satisfy your desires. So, next time you're looking to approach a woman, leave the pork pistol of snap chat behind and go for the beef bayonet of a genuine conversation.

[MrTouchyFeely]

Well, my friend, agree to disagree. Snapchat is like receiving a gentle massage for the heart. You can send pictures of the two of you snuggling and maybe one day you'll get to snuggle with her and create even more special moments together. You can reach out and touch her digital world like a fluffy pillow of kindness. And who knows, maybe someday you can even place your hand tenderly on her private areas.

[PavlovsCogk]

@MrTouchyFeely Imagine yourself lying before the Prince of Darkness himself, his engorged member pulsating with wicked intent. His touch ignites fires within your very being, sending waves of ecstasy rippling throughout your soul. The air around you thickens with the sickening scent of sulfur, suffocating you even as he consumes you whole. As he pumps his foul seed into your depths, you feel your spirit shatter, binding itself forevermore to eternal damnation.

[Dongie]

👏👏👏

[PavlovsCogk]

@Traninator I think my main common ip address is permanently excluded. Any account logged in from it instantly is frozen? @ragingbοner if the tagging doesn't work then I'm right.

[PavlovsCogk]

Because where he follows he doesn't appear in the following list, and the verification mail doesn't get sent, tried 3 accounts on various email addresses today.

[RagingBοner]

Finally received verification link, quite late

[ButtBanger]

@RagingBοner now it's us 2 with @Pentachrist and @MegalithicManhood on the same IP. Don't ruin it for us all.

[ButtBanger]

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[ButtBanger]

@Traninator interesting that the exorcist is gone, but not the rest. Siri definitely needed help from an exorcist.

[ButtBanger]

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[ButtBanger]

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[slatyb]

Neither. It's respectful to initiate a conversation to see if she's interested at all. If she is, then ask if she's open for a future meeting at the end of the conversation.

If you just ask strange women for their contact information when you first encounter them, you won't be very successful. They will be thinking "Why should I give this guy my number?" and they will find some way to avoid you.

[Dongie]

Women in the 70s and most of the 80s were cool. It was common to get numbers. Culturally speaking.

[slatyb]

@Dongie your profile says that you are 44, meaning that your are born in 1980. How would you know what dating was like?

[Dongie]

Nah, it say 61, born in 62.

[dustybiker2]

How about saying something that leaves an impression. Give a smile and walk away. If she is still watching you casually ask if she wants your number. Luring is better than asking.

[KrakenAttackin]

@dustybiker2. Give an example.

[dustybiker2]

Find something that you like about them. Especially if it's obvious and say something about it. "That reminds me of..." or "You should have a license for that."

[KrakenAttackin]

Ok, pickup lines.

[dustybiker2]

Right. Making them personal "reminds me of" (i like best) creates a temp connection. See how they react.

[msc545]

Neither - approaching a woman will get you arrested unless she finds you attractive, which you cannot know about unless you approach her. This is one reason marriage rate has declined since women rarely approach men despite what they say and lie about.

[aceleon]

sadly i don't know, all of my encounters were with girls from class or friends of my girl friends, i never go and talk to a girl i just saw that day intending this, i either was already knowing a bunch about the girl thanks to her friends (which either happened to be my friends too or my friend's friends so they either filled me in or straight up played the matchmaker)

[bobalife]

Preferably to talk to me for abit and then ask for my phone number as I take that more genuine. I also don’t want random inappropriate Snapchat pics sent to me🙄

[Smashingdoozy]

I'd prefer being asked for my number. Bad experiences with guys on Snapchat just randomly sending dick pics

[LaurenM1997]

I would approach her and have a conversation with her and if that goes well then ask her for a date then her phone number or if she wants to be friends just stay friends

[tiff_tiff]

Spend sometime getting to know me before asking for my phone number. I wouldn't give out my Snapchat.

[KrakenAttackin]

@tiff_tiff. At your age it is illegal for you to send nudes.

[tiff_tiff]

I never said I give out nudes.

[KrakenAttackin]

@tiff_tiff. Isn't that the whole point of Snap Chat?

[tiff_tiff]

@KrakenAttackin Nope. But it sounds like that is what you use it for.

[MemeSupreme]

phone bc what if we gotta call bc of like being lost at a carnival or somethin

and i might not respond if it's snapchat bc i muted social media apps

[LiamJHayden]

I approach, chat with her, and if she seems interested I ask for her number. I then immediately call to make sure it is real and tell her, "Just checking to make sure I entered it correctly."

[laly520]

well lot use snapchat lately n rarely use the phone number to text anymore so the second

[Anonymous]

Neither. Approaching is only respectful if you are attractive or wealthy or both. Otherwise its stalking or sexual harassment.

[Dinklex3]

I’d say phone number or instagram.

I feel like guys who ask for that have different intentions.

[ManOnFire]

Always phone number. I don't have or like Snapchat anyway.

[Yannae]

Phone number. I don't know about respectful but useful. Not everyone has snap chat, but almost everyone has a phone.

[Anonymous]

How about giving her your number so she can reach out if she wants. She doesn't have to worry about creating a fake number because she's scared of him becoming aggresive or whatever

[KrakenAttackin]

Because that forces her to be the one to initiate, which is something most women hate.

[82lynx]

That reminds me of when a girl gave me a fake phone number when I hadn’t asked for one. I’ll bet she and her friends had a good laugh at my expense over that one. Nowadays they usually ignore me until they have something rude to say, so there’s no way I’ll ever ask for a phone number.

[andreasderjuengere]

To NOT ask for some meaningless "number"?
Instead, strike up a friendly conversation.

[andreasderjuengere]

To explain: a conversation is when two or more people speak to one another without electronic aids involved.