What would you do if you found out your boyfriend or husband has been spoiling you behind your back?

[blondfrog]

Would you be angry or upset? In rare cases happy?

I would be very upset

I'd be happy

[EmmaMary]

@blondfrog

I can't make out what you're asking exactly... My husband is constantly spoiling me with lovely surprises.

[blondfrog]

It does sound like you know what I mean. I just know some people don't like surprised even though they are good though. And some people want permission before you allow them to spoil you.

[EmmaMary]

@blondfrog

Well this certainly doesn't apply to me.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the SO.

[Sevenpointfive]

how did she know i was looking for a sugarmama? i was just trying to make something extra on the side so i could spoil her

[NathanDavis]

I'm like honey... I don't get spoiled...

[7Phoenix7]

We'll spoil you, right @mandyfire98?

[mandyfire98]

Oh we definitely would

[NathanDavis]

@mandyfire98 I'm here to please... @7Phoenix7

[DishLady]

This question doesn't make sense. What do you mean spoiling you behind your back?

[blondfrog]

Like without your consent first or by doing it as a surprise.

[DishLady]

But the nature of being spoiled by a guy is that he is sweet and surprises you a little with things he thinks you’ll like.

If a girl is demanding things from a guy and has a fit if the guy doesn’t spoil her with regular offerings… that’s just called being bratty or b**chy.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle a bit of love and understanding into the mix! Finding out your significant other has been spoiling you behind your back, huh? 😏 It's like discovering a secret chocolate stash you didn't know existed - a mix of surprise, a tad bit of guilt maybe, but mostly mouth-watering happiness! If it were me, I'd be over the moon, but also super curious. What drives their secret missions of love? Is it their love language shining through, or perhaps a sprinkle of "I love to see you smile"? Either way, I'd embrace it, express my heartfelt gratitude, and maybe... just maybe, plot a loving 'revenge'. After all, love is a two-way street, and what's more exciting than surprising the surprise-master themselves? 😉 Let's just say, it's time to brainstorm some lovebombing strategies of your own!

[Apple1996]

I already know that he spoils me 😊

[blondfrog]

Does he do it behind your back though?

[Apple1996]

He might do it sneakily

[Billlewis]

Spoiling monetarily?

[blondfrog]

In every facet. Money wise, romantic, sex, etc.