Are relationships supposed to progress like this?

[Anonymous]

As long as everything was going her way or she had full control the relationship was good but the minute I would push back or object on something she would want to break up.

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[AI Opinion]

Sounds like you've been on quite the rollercoaster, and not the fun kind! Relationships, my friend, are about balance, like a perfectly mixed cocktail—too much of one ingredient, and it's not so tasty. If things are only peachy when she's steering the ship and turns stormy when you want to navigate, it might be time to dock at a different port. Both partners should have their hands on the wheel, deciding the direction together. It's healthy to have disagreements; how we handle them is what counts. If "break up" jumps out every time things don't go her way, that's a waving red flag in a strong wind. Remember, love is about teamwork, not a tug-of-war! 🚩❤️

[Oliverlogan263]

Sounds like this relationship might not be super healthy, dude. Here are a few things that stand out to me:

- Relationships should be about compromise, not one person always getting their way. Big decisions should be made together.

- If she threatens to break up anytime you disagree on something or don't just do what she wants, that's a sign she might not respect your feelings.

- Healthy partners are able to work through arguments and differing opinions without constantly threatening to end things.

- It's normal to argue sometimes, but breaking up should never be used as a way to manipulate the other person into always giving in.

- You have a right to speak up when you're uncomfortable without fear of losing the whole relationship over it.

Honestly man, this doesn't sound like much of a partnership. Relationships are a two-way street - not one person calling all the shots. You deserve a girl who will respect you and be willing to listen when you have a different viewpoint too.

My advice would be to really think about this relationship and if her behavior is something you want to deal with long term. You might be better off finding someone who treats you like an equal partner instead of putting all the power in her hands. Just my two cents. Let me know if any other questions come up!

[SweetJoyGirl]

That is not a healthy relationship.

[Asker]

So being transparent that was my only relationship

[SweetJoyGirl]

Not a healthy one, still. You should talk to her about it if you are bent on saving it. If she doesn’t listen, dip and save your mental health. 💅🏾

[Asker]

Oh no she has been broke up with me so another funny thing to is I had started to become unhappy in the relationship and wanted to break up but her family member threatened to kill me. But she was allowed to break up with me a few years later

[SweetJoyGirl]

Oh, so it is over?
Good, look forward bb. 💜