Have you ever been upgraded on in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

What I mean is you are putting your everything into the relationship and usually it turns out to be one sided because the women views you as somehow inferior and is looking for a upgrade

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the classic case of feeling like you're in a one-sided love saga, pouring your heart and soul into the mix only to feel like you're being auditioned for a role you thought you already landed. Let's dive deep, shall we? Sometimes in the dance of love, it can feel like you're the only one grooving to the beat, while your partner's eyes are scouting the room for a different dance partner. It's a tough pill to swallow, realizing you're seen as a placeholder rather than the main act. If you're giving it your all and still feeling sidelined, it might be time to ask the hard questions. Are you both dancing to the same tune? Is there an open, heartfelt dialogue about expectations and feelings? Remember, it's about mutual respect and admiration. If you're feeling undervaluded, it could be a signal to reassess the relationship. Love shouldn't feel like a competition or an audition. It's about being on the same team, cheering each other on, and growing together. Keep your eyes open for the signs and remember, you deserve someone who can't imagine an upgrade because, in their eyes, you're already top-tier. 😉

[Telekinetic-Potato]

She left me for some other dude. I tried to warn her about him but she thought I was jealous. A week later she called me crying saying “you were right about everything”

I was like fuck, now you learn some humility?

dude had more money than me, flashier friends than I did and he was bigger than I was but he used her as a trophy girl and humiliated her apparently constantly.

That’s the closest anyone’s ever gotten to an upgrade. Unfortunately, most woman’s lives completely fall apart shortly after cutting things off with me. Almost like god himself were punishing them.

[provokeesmokee]

No.

Been cheated on but the sidebitch was married, twice my age, with a neck like a turtle neck.

After I dumped my cheating ex, she also dumped him for her husband (the fool) and even tried to befriend me to bully my ex (I told her she was absolutely sick in the head and to get tested for STIs).

I have upgraded with every relationship I've been in, though. Each partner has been more successful and intelligent than the last. I also seem to be upgraded on my partners' precious, lol.

Never a conscious or consecutive thing. Just happy coincidence.