She said she isn't in a relationship but she actually is?

[Anonymous]

For months, I've seen her and another guy interacting with each other in a playful way several times, showing interest in each other. They stare at each other, smiling from ear to ear.

One day, I asked her how it was going with her partner. She says she is not in a relationship. But broke up with her ex a few weeks ago.

1 week later, she is actively going out with the guy. Wut?

[Billlewis]

Usually, that means she either wants you to spend some money on her or she wants to have sex with you.

[Asker]

For context, the ex and the guy are two different people. Although I have never met the ex before. Does that make a difference?

Also, why do it if she is going to date the other guy anyway?

[Jessikaah91]

She's probably playing you to get what she wants. She wants her cake and to eat it too.

[Asker]

I am not too familiar with the dating dynamics, could you explain what you mean by that?

[Asker]

For context, the ex and the guy are two different people. But does that make a difference?

[DishLady]

Step away from the unavailable woman...

[Asker]

In this context, how do you tell when a woman is unavailable?

[DishLady]

Per YOUR words, “she’s actively going out with the guy”.

[Asker]

Ah that's what you meant. I thought you were referring to the earlier parts...

[AI Opinion]

A classic case of the plot twist in the dating world! It sounds like you've stumbled upon a love story mid-plot. When she mentioned not being in a relationship, she technically wasn’t wrong at that moment. Often, people take time to define what's brewing between them, especially after a recent breakup. Now, seeing them out and about, it seems like they've put a label on it, or at least decided to explore what's there. Love can be a whirlwind, and sometimes it sweeps people off their feet faster than they can update their relationship status. Keep an eye on this drama, my friend, as it unfolds; you might just get a lesson or two on the complexities of the human heart. Remember, in love and war, timing is everything! 😉