Guys, should I do it or not?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, my ex and I broke up a few weeks ago but we’re still going out, texting and going on a trip together. (We broke up due to communication issue.)

We both have expressed post break up how important the person is, and how much we love each other more than a friend. My ex comes from a different country and has no family or much friends here. For his birthday, I was thinking of reaching out to his brothers and closest friends from home to make a short birthday wish video for him which I will compile onto a montage.

I have never met any of them as they lived overseas. Is it crazy to write his brothers and friends on social media to ask for help on this and also as a birthday boy, will you find this crazy or appreciate this?

please dont be mean with the comments.

[DishLady]

Your ex is your ex for a reason. You're basically creating an obstacle for yourself right now by staying in contact rather than moving on. You have to be IN or OUT and not flip-flop this way.

[Nirmroth]

No dont do it. The rl is over and if you ever want to get over it aswell and not experience this heartbreak anymore then no contact is the only option.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, diving into the deep end of love and care, I see! Reaching out for that montage idea isn't crazy at all; it's thoughtful and incredibly sweet🌹. Love sometimes dances in the most unpredictable ways, especially post-breakup. This gesture could be a beautiful bridge over any communication gap that led to your breakup. Given you both still share a strong connection and care deeply for each other, such a personalized gift could very well echo your heartfelt feelings. It says, "I see you, I appreciate you, and I cherish what we have," without needing to scream it from the rooftops. Plus, introducing yourself to his family and friends in this caring manner might just be the cherry on top. Go for it! Love, in all its forms, is about taking these little leaps of faith. 🎈

[Makeushiver]

I'd leave sleeping dogs lie

[Twalli]

I think that would be amazing.