Husband sleeps late, then always has to sleep during the day?

[Anonymous]

This is upsetting me more than anything, becuase we can’t spend as much time together. Most days, he sleeps at 2 or 3 am. Then he has to have a sleep later in the day. This disrupts the day. Like if I want to go out at say 11am, he’s never ready for that time, so we always go out later in the day. Then later he’ll need a sleep. Any advice on how to deal with this would be appreciated

[HelpfulWoman]

all you can do is talk to him about it.
my dude is very much similar in being a night owl. coming to bed at a "regular" time is because his job is a day shift over anything else. but he now makes a point to at least one day he has off make the effort to wake up earlier so we can spend the day as more of a family.

[hahahmm]

What you do is put on an outfit you know he likes (but that is also appropriate for where you want to go/do). You wake him up with a very pleasant & sweet attitude and you say it would mean a lot to you if he got up and joined you. Be 100% nice about it and you will be amazed at the results you get versus being nasty.

But also don't expect him to want to do exactly what you do every day. That's not how life works. Mention it to him the day before... or two.

[jahaims]

He could be depressed, tired from working a lot, or have a health issue

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Try getting him reaaaaaally tired, if you know what I mean.. 😏😇

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, it sounds like your beau's nocturnal adventures are turning your duo into a solo act at high noon! 😜 Here's a spicy little tactic: woo him with the allure of morning dates! Think irresistible breakfast in bed or a sunrise stroll, something that makes staying up late less appealing than catching those early rays with you. Communication is your best friend here—let him know how much you miss your quality time together and suggest gently shifting his sleep schedule. Maybe introduce a bedtime routine that you can both look forward to, making nights less about staying up and more about snuggling up. Remember, it's about creating moments together that are too good to sleep through! 💑💤

[Danny_dan92]

He needs to see a doctor

[Blue_Dark]

What does he do until late at night?

[Asker]

Watch films mostly

[Blue_Dark]

Porn?

[Asker]

Hahah no, normal ones🤣

[Blue_Dark]

😂😂😂