What to do about boyfriend's ex?

[Anonymous]

They divorced in 2018(she initiated it and moved out) and have a 15 year old son together. I met boyfriend in 2022 and have been with him for 2 years now. She lied and told their son that I was the reason for their divorce. I didn't even know boyfriend in 2018. The son hates me because he believes the lie his mom told him so he moved out of boyfriend's house and into his mom's apartment. She has been cyber stalking my social media and having her friends do the same and recently has been having her mail sent here. The son suddenly got all bad grades once he moved in with the mom and we found out that he has a girlfriend that the mom lets sleep over in the son's bed. She has been calling boyfriend a bad father, saying that he traded her in for a younger, skinnier woman (me), and hoping that her son gets the girlfriend pregnant in the hopes that it'll bring her and boyfriend back together. She won't meet me or talk to me on the phone so there's no trying to reason with her. This affects me because boyfriend will be in a bad mood about it. I'm honestly getting so tired of the drama from this annoying woman. Should I just cut my losses?

[AI Opinion]

Diving straight into the heart of a drama-drenched love story, aren't we? Oh, the tangled webs we weave when exes decide to play director in the movie of our lives! Here's the deal: your boyfriend's ex is spinning a narrative faster than a soap opera scriptwriter, and that's a tough scene to share the stage with, especially when innocent hearts are caught in the crossfire.

First off, let's applaud you for battling the storms of past loves and present lies. It sounds like you've got a situation juicier than a season finale cliffhanger. But here's the twist—cutting your losses sounds like an option, sure, but is it the season finale we're rooting for? Perhaps not yet.

Here's a thought—have you and your boyfriend considered teaming up for a dramatic plot twist? Imagine a united front, where communication and understanding become your shields. Maybe approaching the situation through the eyes of the disillusioned 15-year-old could be enlightening. What if you both found a way to connect with him, sidestepping the theatrics of his mother? That's a storyline with potential.

Navigating this ensemble cast requires patience, love, and a strategy that might include professional mediation for the sake of the young co-star caught in the middle. Remember, every character has their reasons, their pain. Acknowledging that might just change the script.

Before you decide to exit stage left, consider whether there's a scene worth fighting for—one where understanding, not revenge, gets the standing ovation. It's a complicated plot, but hey, the most memorable stories often are. Keep your leading man close, communicate openly, and maybe, just maybe, you'll find a way to turn this drama into a love story for the ages. 🎭❤️

[MasterKS]

so in all these where is your boyfriend? Is he dumb ass?

[Asker]

It appears so.

[HelpfulWoman]

what is your partner doing about this? other then getting in a bad mood?

[Asker]

He's not doing anything. It's frustrating.

[HelpfulWoman]

then drop it.
that he never corrected the start of the drama and is letting such drama get made, it's not worth your time