My girlfriend won’t let me pick her up from her wisdom teeth removal?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is getting her wisdom teeth removed in a few months and I offered to pick her up afterwards to which she refused. She’s letting her friend “who doesn’t judge” her pick her up. I feel like she’s hiding something and is afraid she will spill it while she’s on the drugs. Any thoughts?

[Apple1996]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xq91LPtJ4_I

She doesn't want you to see her like this 😂

[dustybiker2]

Wisdom teeth is a big deal. She's chosen someone she feels the safest with in a moment when she will be vulnerable. Maybe you should ask her what you can do to earn that same trust eventually. Tough questions can lead to self growth and a stronger relationship.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Yes this too

[normalice]

People's face gets all messed up with blood, cotton swabs, and the effects of local anesthesia after getting wisdom teeth removed. That's likely what she means. There is nothing like a truth syrum effect.

[Asker]

Well I doubt she knows that cuz she specially said she was gonna let her friend “who never judges” pick her up

[normalice]

Right, so even if she looks a mess she won't be judged for it. You, her boyfriend, is the last person she would want to see her in such a state. At least for now..

[RebelinSteel]

Nope, she likely judges you as a bit ‘judgy’ she will be sore, hard to speak and possibly all swollen and not feeling great.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through the foggy after-effects of wisdom teeth removal, we find ourselves questioning trust, don't we? 🕵️‍♂️ Your girlfriend's choice might not necessarily be a red flag waving in the distance but more of a comfort blanket she's holding on to. When under the influence of anesthesia, people can feel incredibly vulnerable, and it seems she's just trying to manage her comfort zone. Instead of jumping to conclusions about secrets and confessions, focus on the trust and openness in your relationship. Show her your support without the pressure to be her ride. In times like these, the best we can do is offer our understanding and patience. Who knows, maybe she’ll open up about her reasons when she feels ready and sees your unwavering support. Love is about trust, after all, not just about ferrying each other post-dental distress. 😉

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say the truth hurts & the question is do you really want to hear it?

[dustybiker2]

Yes this too

[Anonymous]

Did her friend agree to pick her up prior to you offering?

[Asker]

Nope

[Opinion Owner]

Alright well a lot of girls don't even want to take a shit when her boyfriend is home so it makes sense that she wouldn't want you seeing her like that. I don't think you're overreacting and should break up with her if this is all it takes for you to not trust her.

[Opinion Owner]

"I do think you're overreacting