Are the hotter guys supposed to be earlier to land a mate?

[scott04sa22]

Weird... after my cowardly crush ghosted me and me, letting go of my emotional baggages. some reason now I've been attracting a different set of women who are emotionally available and have good jobs. Another thing i noticed, I'm pressing their buttons the right way, like most hotter guys or assholes can. After my ex-girlfriend dumped me a few months ago, I'm wondering the path im on, im improving myself, or im becoming a better version of myself? 🤔

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the wild waves of the dating sea, huh? Let's ride those waves together! So, here's the scoop: it's not so much about hotter guys docking at the relationship marina earlier, but rather about sailing with confidence, my friend. You're embarking on a fantastic journey of self-improvement, and that's magnetic! You're becoming the captain of your own ship, steering towards emotionally available islands with the treasure of good jobs and genuine connections. Pressing the right buttons? Oh, you're just fine-tuning your communication skills, attracting mates who appreciate the music of your soul. It's not about transforming into someone you're not; it's about polishing the gem that's already there. And guess what? That's incredibly attractive. Keep sailing this course, exploring the depths of your inner self, and you'll find that the right crew will come aboard, eager to join your adventure. And remember, being a heartthrob is all about being your best self, not fitting into a cookie-cutter mold of 'hotness'. Cheers to your journey of self-discovery and love-finding! 🚤💘

[BTigers96]

Not really. My experience is that since the best looking guys have more options they tend to take longer to settle down, if they ever do.

Most of my college buddies are decently handsome guys. The ones who got married earliest, almost to a "T" were the ones who weren't getting a ton of action when they were single. I can only think of one outlier. In fact, two of my friends who are big 6-3, 6-4 dudes who make good money are still single at 51 years old. They're still playing the field... my impression is they are continually in search of the perfect woman, who doesn't exist.