If a man cheats, it is the man's fault. If a women cheats is it the man's fault because he failed to keep her interest in the bedroom?

[Kelley1]

Ladies Night

[Finchie40]

I have to say this is pretty much true for the most part , based off of my experiences with girls’ some of my exes have tried having sex with me again, and some of them cheated on me with an ex , but when I asked the ones’ that wanted to cheat on their boyfriends with me , they all said he wasn’t good in bed or he doesn’t treat her right blah blah blah I just shook my head and thought thank God you are no longer my girlfriend. Bottom line most people are selfish fucking people that only think of themselves , they have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. Why I no longer jump into a relationship with a girl , mainly for these reasons. Most females’ are selfish people and yes I know guys’ can be as well , but I don’t date guys’. So to me , most females’ sadly can’t be trusted , why I prefer FWB’s with a girl first before even considering commitment with her. To eliminate having my heart shit on over and over. Most females’ I meet say they want love and want commitment and loyalty , but they don’t add in the fact that they aren’t going to do the same for me , when things don’t go their way. Most girls’ I have dated have set boundaries with me , telling me to stop being friends with a girl friend of mine , because it’s disrespectful, but she won’t do the same for me , she will say oh He is just a friend , ok well she was just a friend to me as well but you didn’t trust me , so why the fuck would I trust you? For me to give my heart completely to a girl she has to do the same for me in return. Make me her priority the same way she will be my priority , if I am just a convenience to her , she will be my convenience as well. I no longer tolerate selfish girls’ I might fuck them , but I will not commit to them.

[Kelley1]

Did you read what you wrote? You are saying we should do for you what you do for us. That's not reasonable.

[Finchie40]

Yes , when entering a relationship with someone you both should be on the same page with things , set boundaries together that you both follow together , without that? It won’t work

[Kelley1]

Nevertheless, most of what you said is not far from how it too often is.

[Finchie40]

Yea relationships don’t have to be hard , selfish people make them hard

[RavVid]

... and for a 101 other things that he didn't do, like fixing her pysch issues, not giving enough enough emotional intimacy, giving too much emotional intimacy and being clingy, being controlling and not being masculine and putting the girl in her place etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc.

It is feeling like we are in a bad marriage with girls as a class. It is just perpetual complaints and nagging.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So either way, it’s the man’s fault? Yeah no… whoever cheats, whether it’s the man or the woman that cheated, it’s their fault… If someone is unhappy or unsatisfied in their relationship, then end it instead of trying to use that piss poor excuse to justify cheating🤷‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[Kelley1]

If a wife chooses to cheat, that is her right. After all, she might get pregnant and have a baby with superior genes. Husbands don't have the right to cheat. Even if they do have the right, most can't because women don't fuck lesser men.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That’s a bunch of bs

[Strongbeauty444]

Yes sounds about right.

[DishLady]

Warped philosophy on a Saturday morning? I pass. It’s too ridiculous.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂😂

[ChiTown33]

Totally false! I mean could the man have failed her? Absolutely! But cheaters cheat. That is the ONLY reason it happened. And it doesn't matter whether it's the man or the woman cheating. The answer is the same for either gender. Because regardless, if a person feels unfulfilled they always have the option of ending the relationship and then pursuing whatever they feel they're lacking somewhere else. Cheating on someone then blaming them for your actions is not owning YOUR actions. And again this goes for either gender that cheats.

[Kelley1]

That is politically correct.

[ChiTown33]

No. It's true. If you don't want to believe it if you don't have to. But it will still be the truth nonetheless.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

What you said💯 that’s what I hate the most about cheaters… Bad enough they break a promise/trust, they usually lie, but then they turn around and blame it on the very person they wronged… people that do that are POS’s

[HawkPerception]

Lol no. If a man cheats, it's his fault. If the woman cheats, it's her fault. It's as simple as that. There is no reason to cheat. Openly communicate first and then if nothing is changing or you're dissatisfied with the result, you can leave. But don't cheat.

[SixFootSexy]

This is why women were treated like property in the olden days. Chain the woman up so she literally can't cheat, and stone her if she steps out on you. Kept raising cuckold children to a minimum and healthier for society as a whole.

[Kelley1]

Cuckoldry is the fate of males the animal kingdom over. In study after study of species after species, the idea that females are naturally devoted to their one and only mates, even as the males wander, has fallen to growing evidence that many of the world's supposedly monogamous females are guilty of their share of indiscretions.

[SixFootSexy]

It's why in the middle ages when men were off fighting wars or whatever, women were encouraged to practice bi-activities. It isn't perfect, but beats raising children that aren't yours.

[mamysandycandy]

It's the cheater's fault, whether it's a man or a woman.

If he/she is not satisfied, just break up and then go sleep around. Like why break your partners heart with betrayed when you could just have a clean breakup?

I guess some people just wants more than just the cake. You can either choose the cake or the cherry, you can't get both. 🙄

[IslaTheWitch]

cheating is a decision made by a person who cheats...

of course, there could be many excuses for cheating, but it doesn't change that the responsibility for making this decision is on ONE person...

[TaureanBull81]

Yet again... fucked up female psyche 101 as well as not being able to take aby accountability.

Accountability is a woman's cryptonite!!

[Kelley1]

Telling it like it is.

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[Nikki1989]

People in love who have satisfying sex lives very rarely cheat. That should tell you something.

[Kelley1]

Where is the evidence or logic in support of your opinion? Women have always cheated because it gives their children a greater chance of survival.

In the Stone Age, and we still have our Stone Age brains, only the Alpha female would be the mate of the Alpha male, but all the females could have sex with the Alpha male. Therefore, women would mate with a dependable provider for them and their children, then when ovulating,
if the risk of discovery was low, would have sneaky sex with the Alpha male, thereby providing their children with superior genes which, in turn, increased their odds of surviving long enough to pass on their genes.

Women who did not have sex with superior men when the opportunity and risk of discovery were low are not our ancestors. Even a 1% advantage per generation would suffice because in 25,000 years (1,000 generations), 1.01^1000 is a 21,959 to 1 advantage.

[vj0090]

What u have to say.. Will. u consider it mens fault?

[Kelley1]

Yes, because men are obligated to maintain a woman's interest in the bedroom. And, even if not, in the best interest of their children, women have the right to select the best available genes for their eggs.

[vj0090]

Same is applicable for boys too... its not like only women genes will be transferred to a child.. its men too... maintaing excitement and satisfying body needs is the responsibility of both... and if someone is cheating bcz of that... to me its more a shame..

[Kelley1]

If she gives birth she mostly has to settle for her own genes but has options for the male genes. It is well established that breading your mare to the best which is very expensive improves your chances of having a winning horse.

[dudegreat91]

Yeah that guy failed to satisfy her needs so its his fault :D

[dudegreat91]

You agree?

[Kelley1]

Not exactly, but if her cheating is to provide superior genes for her eggs and, in turn, her children, surely that would be the preferred choice.

[dudegreat91]

You believe in that Alpha Male shit? Thats kind of red pill/Andrew Tate talk.

[SpeedAnswerDemon]

definitely, all the guys fault, 100% no excuses. slay all day girl 💅

[SugarSugarplum]

Cheating is about the breakdown of an emotional connection, trust, and respect, not how twisty her hips were in bed last night.

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating is the sole responsibility of the cheater.

[MicahRaine]

Unfortunately, people like to point fingers. If someone cheats, everyone messed up.

[jahaims]

The reason people cheat has nothing to do with sex. A person cheats to cope with hating themselves.

[Surely]

Takes two to tango. Unless it is rape!
or The honeymoon is over!

[Billlewis]

I pretty much agree.

[Cheerfull009]

Both cheater are betraying their partners , it is common in USA and Europian culture , not in East

[spartan55]

Yeah, I don't think so.

[msc545]

Exactly right.

[MrGSpotHer]

Some people just like to sleep around

[shortster]

Nope, it is always the cheater's fault.

[RedInnocent69]

That’s the way girls would have it, wouldn’t they?

[Kelley1]

Of course, it is. It's about as bad as it can be for the guys. A man stuck doing parental care should have a very high certainty of paternity, but in fact, that's not the case. The females are really in the catbird seat. They seem to be getting whatever they want.

[MK1997]

This is weird. It's usually the way around

[Stu234432]

If he has ED I might understand

[war_daddy]

sloots gonna sloot