I'm asking for those who are married or in a relationship. Have you had sex with one of your exes or would you understand if your partner wanted to?

[bluejeansblues]

[Anonymous]

The idea of a long term relationship and in particular marriage is that you commit to one person above all others.

It may be that you still have feelings for an ex. But you're not allowed to act upon them. And frankly, you should know this if you're in such a relationship and want to keep it.

[jahaims]

Definitely not. That isn't how a healthy relationship works.

[Taniisokay]

I will not cheat on him and demand the same shit too. If my partner wants to have sex outside marriage/ relationship then I am out.

[Anonymous]

That would be completely beyond my comprehension, and I would have to bid him farewell if that was his desire.

[Anonymous]

No, and no.