Has A Married Person Ever Wanted To Have An Affair or Just a Fling With You, and How Did You Respond To Them?

Question

I remember this one married man more than the others who wanted to have an affair with me when I was 26 years old.

He was the salesman from Monsanto and took everyone in the company out for a nice lunch.

For some reason, 🤔, he and I ended up sitting in the bar together next to each other.

It didn't take him long to get to the point with me.

I had had other married guys wanting the same thing with me, and I always said a BIG "NO"!!

But this guy I said exactly what was on my mind. I told him that I wanted a house, a car, credit 💳 cards , everything that his wife has! But all I would get is just YOU! No thanks!!

I usually just said no to other guys, but this man thought he was someone special! The rich salesman from Monsanto! WOW! NOT!! 🚫

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Many years ago, there was a woman from another company helping my team out on a technical project. She was miles from home and spent a couple weeks at our site, a few times, over several months. She took a liking to me and made it very clear that I could have her if I wanted. She was subtle at first, then blunt, handing me a key to her hotel room. I must admit I was very tempted, she was cute and my type, but I don't fool around with married women. She eventually got the hint and had an affair with a coworker who was, interestingly, also married.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Around 1981, I had something similar with a nurse who was a co-worker, except that she was a very nice lady and just going through a rough patch with her husband. I told her to go home and work on her marriage. Apparently, she took my advice because they remained married until he died about two years ago.

lilBigPotato · Accepted Answer

For anything that lasts longer than a few nights, I want someone who properly commits to me and not just keeping me on the side for fun or as backup plan. So either you break up asap or not gonna happen.

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

Married men seem to flirt with me a lot but my answer would be no because I won't ever be the third wheel in a relationship.

BadApple69 · Answer

Yes I had 3 married women from my neighborhood who all hit on me. Honestly I was way too loyal to a bad wife. I just ignored the advances. Looking back…. I should have taken them up on the offer. They were all friends with my wife and from many conversations in the summer sitting outside drinking (neighborhood past time) I am guessing the conversation of my wife and I NOT having sex (she hated sex) must have come up that’s what made these ladies so bold.

DuSith · Answer

When I was younger, I had a lot of problems with this. In fact, there were only two groups of women who showed much interest. One was the "too young" group, as in under 18. Automatic no-go. I preferred older women, my age plus 10 or so, which happened to be what they guys I hung out with also liked.

But, for some reason, I only attracted married women. Or, maybe I should say "taken." If I knew, it was no. Sorry, but I had been hurt and I wasn't going to put someone else through that, even if she thought it was OK. However, I've never been one for just sex. I have to be interested in her. A lot of women think they're perfect, like a lot of men do, but they aren't. Plus, I figure if she's cheating on him then she will eventually cheat on me. No thank you.

exitseven · Answer

At the place I worked I was very good friends with a woman that also worked there. She always flirted with me and I was not interested even though she was pretty hot. One day I was outside her office and before I went in I heard her having s conversation with her secretary. She said that she though that I was the hottest guy on campus. After that I figured I should try sand steer clsear of her.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'll keep it short... yes... married, or with a girlfriend, have wanted to have a bit of a thing, or a lot of a thing here and there and I just, no...  no thanks , I'm not into any of that stuff, lol

Tereza07 · Answer

When i worked as a bartender this was happening to me like every week 🤣. It wasn't that serious but if i would be down for it, it would happen for sure

nomomrnice · Answer

Well you ended up in a bar together red flag right there you knew the guy was married you should have just said hey I'm on my way or hung out with some other friends that are single how do you know the dude can't afford to watch could have missed out on the house and all the other things that the other wife has

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Never told me about this guy 🤣 You wanted him to think that you're a gold digger so that he leaves you haha

FreyaRed · Answer

Rolling eyes and "forget it!" comment

Twodogs0525 · Answer

A few times. Most recently, one of our neighbors. It's very awkward!

LiamJHayden · Answer

I've had a few who were swingers and their husbands did not care (confirmed) but I still declined. I do not knowingly mess with involved women.

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Once, she was kinda being subtle about it, but I didn't react, so she gave up on trying.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Yes, when I was younger, in college. Things happened, then I cut it off.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes! All 4 of them! Only had sex with 3 of them, though. Cindy was the only one that wasn't married.

AgentG111 · Answer

Yes.

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