Ladies, do you feel like you know what to look for in a partner, or are you still figuring it out?

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Also, do you think your search criteria are helping or hindering your love life?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I used to have a list of what I wanted in a man and did not want. However, I feel like the list I had drastically limited me to men who actually did not fit into those lists. I got to a point where I finally decided (as a Christian) that I just wanted a man who loved God first, and would love me in the way I needed to be loved. The rest of it would be just the way it was meant to be for me... after I made that decision, I met the man I'm currently in a relationship with (going on 2 1/2 years now), and he loves God and loves me.. and he is the most wonderful man I have ever met.

Obviously, it will work out differently for each woman, but for me, I think it was a matter of coming to a point of wanting whoever it was that God had for me, instead of what I thought I needed...

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I know what I like and want in my life, however it's a challenge to find the right person.

While it's tempting to settle with the wrong person for the sake of companionship, being with the wrong person is never worth it.

JSkye · Answer

I have a very short criteria list that I look for in a partner.

Firstly, it's based off of how the person makes me feel. I give a few weeks of time spent together before I make the decision. It's based on my gut feelings about the person, but I give anyone a "try" before I decide to commit.

Secondly, the person has to pass the "mom test." If I don't trust them around my kids, I can't count them as part of my future.

I wouldn't say my search criteria has helped or hindered my love life, but I'm also fairly non-traditional when it comes to love.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I knew by the time I was 16. I didn't meet him till 8 years later but better late than never.

Zoi1986 · Answer

I know what to look for. Though I was married first time did you go well. He cheated gave me chlamydia. Luckily it was cureable.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I'm not really looking but I know what I don't want in a man.

laly520 · Answer

I’m clear about what I want in a partner and feel certain I’ve found it

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I know exactly what I am looking for :)

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m still waiting for the right person

Peridot25 · Answer

I’m honestly not looking

Anonymous · Answer

It's 100% about chemistry.

Unknown_Stranger_0 · Answer

I don’t know really

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