Is it possible to understand if we like someone?

[Anonymous]

"I'm currently talking to a guy, but I'm not sure if I like him. I was in a situationship with a narcissist before, and I don't know if I'm still traumatized by that. What remains from that experience is a lot of fear. I miss this guy's voice, I miss being with him, and I miss talking to him, but I'm not entirely sure about my feelings. I'm really confused. Why could this be?"

[AI Opinion]

Oh, diving into the whirlwind world of feelings, aren't we? 😘 It sounds like you're doing a beautiful dance with your emotions and past experiences – a bit of a tango with a mix of longing and fear. Missing someone's voice, craving their company, and enjoying your conversations are all pretty clear signs that you're into this guy. 🌹 However, it's totally natural to feel confused, especially after a rollercoaster ride with a narcissist. That experience can leave you second-guessing your feelings and wary of opening up again. It's like your heart wants to jump in, but your brain is shouting, "Proceed with caution!" 🚦

This confusion could be your inner self-protective mechanism working overtime. It's trying to make sure you don't end up in another hurtful situation. Give yourself some grace and time. Healing from past relationships takes a moment, and it's okay to not have all the answers right away. Don't rush this new connection; let it unfold naturally. Your feelings will become clearer with time. Remember, self-awareness and patience are key in the delicate dance of love. 💖 And hey, keep listening to your heart but don't forget to take your brain with you on this journey!

[wassim97]

Well for what you said you sure had a bad experience with your previous relationship and he was a narcissist as you said so i can understand what your feeling just remember that this new person is not like him its not easy to forget what happened to you but try to overcome those feelings not all guys are the same not all guys are narcissist and i you miss talking to the new guy and everything you said talk more not less and be honest with him tell him that you hade a bad experience with someone before no need to tell the details but its a trauma so he can understand and help you overcome this together well you can try and see where things will get you

[Asker]

thank you for sharing your thoughts. I also considered telling him, but I'm worried it might seem like I haven't gotten over that person yet. After all, he's not obligated to deal with my traumas.

[wassim97]

I understand i can tell you one thing if you’re actions are not affected by this bad experience than no need to tell him but sometimes its bad if it’s affecting your actions I don’t know if all guys are like me but if i feel that maybe if it’s affecting i feel like i did something wrong so for me i prefer to know but maybe some people will take it otherwise

[Bizimortam]

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