Do you believe in giving second chances in love/people, or do you think it's better to move on from something that's not working?

[itsannalee]

[ohsheeT]

For me I would have to move on.

This is the part that I don't like about cheaters is they go out . And they cheat then they come home and they act like nothing has happened and they start playing the lovey-dovey game on how much they love you and blah blah blah and then they go cheat and they come home and they do the same thing act like nothing has happened but in their heads are thinking that they're smarter than you because they haven't got caught..

And they act like everything's fine everything's good but then I'll go cheat again until they get caught and then when they get caught that's when all the crying starts all the point in the finger at somebody..

It's one thing that they cheat

But it's another thing when they know that they cheated they come home and they want to cuddle with you and be with you and act like nothing has happened and they'll keep doing it over and over until they do get caught so that's the part I wouldn't like so I would have to just move on

[Summeroflove]

It genuinely depends on what you’re giving a second chance for if it’s for something major like being cheated on there really isn’t much you can do but distance yourself from that individual entirely. If someone’s assaulting you that’s another thing never put up with it.

Nobody is perfect everyone is going to fuck up at some point, including yourself. So just remember that and forgive. Even if you have to let someone go it does take time but hating them forever hurts you more then it hurts them.

If someone’s just blatantly disrespecting, entitled, demanding, and the list goes on. I don’t care if you’re my own mother I’m not putting up with it

[SugarSugarplum]

You can always make more money. You can never make more time.

If it's not working, and your goal is home/hearth/kids, then you need to be working on that from age 18 to however long it takes. Wasting time with the wrong person will only hurt your chances.

I personally wouldn't want to go to my kids High school graduation at age 60+, I want to bounce grandkids on my knee.

[silvermoon84]

Depends on the reason. I gave my last ex a second chance, he did not change his behavior at all and the second time he fucked me over was even worse than the first time, so for the most part, my answer is going to be “no”. If he broke up with me to deal with stuff going on in his life and then came back, assuming I’m still single, I might consider it.

[AI Opinion]

Sailing back into the sea of love for a second chance or moving on to new horizons is such a heart-tugging dilemma! ❤️ It really boils down to why you docked your boat in the first place. If we're talking minor misunderstandings or obstacles you've both grown from, then yes, hoisting that sail for a second chance could lead to discovering uncharted bliss together. But if the seas were stormy due to recurring issues like trust breaches, lovebombing followed by ghosting, then maybe it's time to chart a course towards new adventures. Remember, every love story is unique, and sometimes, the sequel can be surprisingly beautiful if both captains are ready to navigate the waters with open hearts and aligned compasses. ⚓️💘

[ChicoFromThe305]

If it didn't work out the first time, whats the point of trying again, it's known that if two individuals click then it shouldn't fall apart, it falling apart only shows signs of incompatibility and they shouldn't expect to make it work the second or third time, if they couldn't stay together for such time then what makes them think it will last a lifetime.

[Berethor]

I tend to be forgiving, only thing I would not forgive is cheating, she deserve to die for that.

[Kaneki05]

Depends what it is of course. I like to hold a grudge and not bother but you know depends what it is.

[Fireguy17]

no, I'm pretty much one and done.
If it isn't working, it isn't working and it is time to move on so we don't waste each other's time

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

case-by-case basis, question is too vague

[bowenw]

Generally I do, but it depends entirely on the circumstances and the plan to prevent it from happening again going forward.

[DermalPunch]

No. It's 99.99% of the time a waste of time.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Essentially I feel like everybody deserves a second chance. However, I feel like if your giving 100% and it not working then you should move on cause Noone should have to deal with a toxic situation

[luvstoned4him]

I only give second chance if they will make the effort to change. It won't be easy u will stumble but if your are trying then it's good.

[Danny_dan92]

If I did, I would’ve gotten back with my ex only because she fucked me like a porn star. But nope, when a relationship ends, it is a clear indication that you’re not compatible with that person

[LiamJHayden]

I move on, probably too quickly, and do not go back for a sequel.

[NathanDavis]

love, no...

love should never be a struggle like that

people, yes...

[EnjoytheDay777]

It depends on the kind of relationship you had before, I think

[justabuddy]

I believe in second chances as long as the relationship fell apart for the right reasons.

[Walksbehindtherows]

I have sex with atheist girls but I don't marry them, man. I prefer Christian and white women to marry.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[Nikki1989]

Depends on for what reason.

[faith_it]

If it's done it is done

[Anonymous]

Depends. No bright line rule.

[Alexandria84]

Depends what they did.

[noohair]

Each case is different.

[vj0090]

Move on... that's the best thing

[RavVid]

Move on

[Agape93]

Nope

[Staximus]

That depends on the circumstances

[Hotboy_booblover]

Move on.. if there is no chance

[nawtee_me]

Move on

[eagle1951]

no i don't