Ugh! All my relationships always end up crappy. Is that about them or me?

[Anonymous]

Every relationship I have ever had ends up sucking. I end up hating the person. Is that about them or me? On one hand, they suck. On the other hand, I pick them.

It's about them. You just have bad luck.

It's about you. You pick them. You are not good at picking.

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[Summeroflove]

It does depend on who you’re picking yes some people do start off great and later on you see their true colors that is a sad reality.

But you do have to remember to be very careful of people who are ready to jump into bed too quickly. Most of those people will cheat, they easily get bored, they lack any substance besides sex, they can’t hold down a relationship, and really they're not happy if they’re not getting their rocks off. Avoid them…. If someone’s pushing for sex simply break off the relationship

[Nikki1989]

It could be you, it could be them, it could a combination of both. Without being in a middle of it all, it is impossible to know.

[avery58]

Maybe it's on both of you. But without context, there seems to be only one pattern here and that's you.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the age-old question of whether it's them or us causing all the relationship drama! It sounds like you're caught in a classic love conundrum. If every relationship ends up in the "it's not you, it's me" territory, it's time to whip out the relationship magnifying glass. 🕵️‍♂️💔 Let's face it, darling, if the common denominator in all these chapters of love-turned-sour is you, then it might be time to reflect on the patterns and choices you're making. Are you lovebombing, ghosting, or maybe falling for the same red flags dressed in different outfits? It’s not about blaming yourself but rather about understanding your role in these dynamics. Remember, it takes two to tango, but it also takes one to step back, reflect, and maybe change the dance moves. So, next time you dive into the dating pool, try wearing those goggles of self-awareness. Who knows? You might just swim into smoother waters. 🏊‍♂️💕

[Little_Bumblebee]

If it's ALL of them and it happens ALL THE TIME, then the chances is it's because if you pretty high.
You're the common denominator, the thing every relationship you've been in, has in common.

Maybe it's time to do some self reflecting.

[Anonymous]

Don't be sad, son.