Girls, if your boyfriend tells you he wants to be a woman, how do you react?

[Anonymous]

[CrazyGirl2]

Sadly I would have to end the relationship, not. the friendship, but I am not attracted to women, or males who present as women. My sexual preference is men, who present as men, and have penises. Obviously I would not leave my future husband if he were in an accident and lost his penis, but even then, if he requested that what remained be surgically fashioned into a female vulva… Then sadly I probably would end the romantic relationship, and just remain as friends, and even roommates (if we had children!). But i’m attracted to men, and I like penises. I don’t feel any sexual or romantic attraction to women, or people who look like women.

[Asker]

Your position is perfectly reasonable

[CrazyGirl2]

Thank you for that, I really appreciate your understanding.

[rachel776]

[Asker]

Could you stay friends?

[NamerOfStars]

I'm not a girl, but I think I can speak for theoretical girl me and say: with much confusion. That's a pretty safe bet.

But that kind of declaration warrants a serious conversation. If he just wants to play around with clothes and makeup and stuff, that'd probably be okay; yeah, it's weird, but it's not like *I* never have any weird desires.

Wanting to surgically transition and the like, though? That I can't honestly say I know how I'd react to. I'll go far, but I have my limits. I don't know if this would be one of them.

[Finchie40]

That would be some crazy shit , it would just depend on what she wants to do , l? stay with him/her or move on and dump his ass. I know
Most of you females’ are more open about your sexuality , that’s why a lot of you kiss each other and fool around with each other , so having a guy turning into a girl probably would or wouldn’t be acceptable? I am curious to see the answers to this question

[Asker]

No, I'd leave my boyfriend if he told me that. But I could stay friends.

[Finchie40]

Yea I wouldn’t blame you , that would be some crazy shit , but sadly in this world that sort of thing can happen

[Asker]

I'm a straight woman, so if my boyfriend, tells me he wants to be a woman, I'll leave him.

But I won't mind if we stay friends.

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s just as bad as being with someone that claims they are straight to eventually find out they are bi sexual or gay. It just happened not to long ago to a married woman with kids , her husband was secretly cheating on her with another man and left her for this other man.

[Finchie40]

And there are girls’ that leave their boyfriend not husband for another girl , Messed up shit

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters of love and identity, aren't we? 🌊💕 If your boyfriend shares such a profound truth about his identity with you, it's like being handed a rare gem of trust. That's huge! Reacting with love, openness, and a dash of curiosity is key. After all, understanding and support are the sexiest forms of intimacy. It's all about transitioning from surprise to support, making sure communication stays as flowing and sparkly as champagne. You've got a unique opportunity to explore deeper layers of connection and redefine what love means to you both. So, why not embrace it with open arms and an open heart? Let's keep the love and understanding flowing! 🌈❤️

[Dinklex3]

I’d be in complete disbelief. I’d be very upset and would probably bite him a lot… Would probably end up in us wrestling a bit and me crying out of frustration😅

Call me a bad girlfriend, idc. But I’m not supporting shit.

[Smashingdoozy]

I would be supportive and help them get the resources they require. Talk through the whole thing obviously

[Asker]

Would you stay in a relationship with him or would he just become your friend?

[Smashingdoozy]

I'd stay if they wanted to continue the relationship. But I understand transitioning is an incredibly tough process, both mentally and physically draining, so I would be happy to just be friends and help them out.
I have dated a trans guy before quite early into his transition, I also have a friend who is a year into his transition, just recently got top surgery and is doing amazing!

[Anonymous]

Respect his decision, wish him well and end the relationship.

[Lliam]

Tell him that he needs therapy, that you aren't a lesbian, and that you are no longer attracted to him. Break off your relationship. Tell him that you can remain friends, but need a man.

[chrissykerdock]

if that were the case i'm sure he'd have no need for me

[Anonymous]

I reacted pretty well when my wife told me he wanted to be a man. I think I could handle it the other way around too. 🏳️‍⚧️❤

[rienna888]

I’d be disappointed because I really love him. I think I’d still love him but he’d make a prettier girl than me lmao.

[Asker]

Haha you could share your heels and makeup 😂

[supercutebutt]

As long as the peen still works, it doesn't matter. Set up a gloryhole if his appearance bothers you. :)

[Anonymous]

I’ll support him on the sidelines but our relationship end there

[Berethor]

You should tell him that he can never become a real woman, as real woman can give birth.

[DrPepper12]

It's been fun, it's been real, it just hasn't been real fun

[Anonymous]

Don’t call heeeem a cowboys unless you seen him ride *gallop gallop*

[Still-alive]

you realize it never is that simple right? people don't just decide this on a whim...

[FreyaRed]

Wish him luck and tell him bye, bye

[Asker]

I'd be so shocked lol

[noohair]

You need to rethink your skills in picking a boyfriend

[yourturkishgf]

im with him till death do us part, but he is religious so i doubt anything like that will happen. And he is masculine

[coxoabean]

I'd ask him why

[SweetDripp]

I would say good bye and good luck.

[anastasia_521]

Then I want to be guy and fuck her

[Asker]

OMG 😱😂

[Nik1hil]

🤣Body Swap🤣

[Anonymous]

Normal reaction