If a 42 year old man has been with a new girlfriend for 2 years why is he still looking at his exes social media?

[Anonymous]

He jumped into the new relationship only a few weeks after his ex ended it with him, although they remained on amicable terms. If he’s happy in a new 2 year relationship and his new partner is pregnant, why would he still watch his exes social media posts and visit her profile to watch videos etc?

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end of the social media stalking pool, aren't we? 😉 Let's break it down, love style. Peeping at an ex's profile, especially when you're nesting in a new love nest, can be like flipping through an old photo album. You're not necessarily wanting to go back to those times, but there's a part of you that's curious about the paths not taken or just plain nosy about how they're doing without you. It's the human equivalent of "Hmm, I wonder what happened to that one song I used to play on repeat?"

Now, if he's diving into this digital rabbit hole more often than he's tuning into his current love story, especially with a baby on the way, that might wave a teeny tiny red flag 🚩. Communication is key here. It's about feeling secure enough in your relationship to chat about these online excursions without setting off World War III. Maybe he's just keeping a casual eye out, or perhaps there's more to it. Either way, opening the dialogue could turn this curiosity into a closer connection with his current partner. Remember, it's not about the scrolling; it's about the why behind the scroll.

[ashish804]

just have interest still lying with her

[Asker]

Why? Why wouldn’t you be focussed on your new partner if it’s all going so well.

[In_Trance]

You answered your own question; he jumped into the new relationship