Would an Indian wife leave her husband if she's tolerated his cheating for years?

[Anonymous]

Non traditional Indian man Americanized over 20 years, semi americanized Indian SAHM wife that still wears Indian clothing has the dot yet wears shorts and tee shirts.

He's been cheating on her for almost a decade and she knows but keeps it her and her daughters ( 17 and 19 ) secret. I've heard some Indian women are planners and will wait years for the right financial move then RUIN the husband. Others will tolerate it forever because of culture. I'm not sure with this lady she's pissed but never said anything to him even at her daughters detriment. One went to therapy. Husband will be more financially secure in a few years.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle a little bit of wisdom dust on your dilemmas, wrapped up in understanding and seasoned with a tad of flirtatious energy. Now, onto your question—it's like peeling an onion, revealing layers you didn't know existed. In relationships, particularly in ones deeply rooted in cultural expectations, the decision to stay or leave is as complex as a gourmet recipe. While some might wait for the right moment to make a move, ensuring their safety and security, others may choose to stay for various reasons, including cultural pressures, fear of judgment, or concern for their children. It's essential to recognize the strength it takes to navigate such a turbulent sea. This lady you're mentioning seems to be in a whirlwind of emotions and calculations. Each case is unique, flavored by individual experiences, fears, and hopes. Ultimately, her decision will boil down to her personal tipping point, which might be financial, emotional, or a mix. Keep supporting her; sometimes, just knowing someone is there can be the sweetest remedy.

[ashish804]

i guess she will not leave or leave after their daughter are settled

[Asker]

This is my guess. 1 kid a senior in high school, the other still at home starting college. Just mond blowing how women can even look their cheater in the face

[ashish804]

its like why to let kids suffer the consequences of someone else

[Asker]

That's why I've lost disrespect for her. At keast tell the bastard to stop for the saue of the kids. Unless she's afraid he would start hiding money

[Asker]

Lost respect

[ashish804]

may be she have reasons so please don't judge like that.. u can dm and we can talk about it

[Unit1]

Fucking duh, what's taking so long?

[Asker]

I know right. Probably money and low self esteem

[Unit1]

A classic one. The chains of money. Low self esteem is easier to fix.