Why do women believe a man would leave his spouse for them?

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Then had the audacity to call her miserable and say “I see why he left you for another woman” it’s people out here miserable enough to be the other woman. They know the men are married but always feel like they can just take a man from his wife at anytime. No he didn’t leave his wife. He been with that woman for over 10 years.

RedInnocent69 · Accepted Answer

A girl can dream. And guys do a good job talking up their girlfriends when they’re bitching about their SOs.

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

If i was married, no woman can steal me from my wife!

Finchie40 · Answer

Because she feels he will value her and appreciate her more than his wife does. Especially if he has been telling her , how much his wife is a bitch to him and treats him like shit and pretty much every negative detail about her. So if he chooses to go back to his wife after he cheated on his wife? He is the moron by thinking he actually loves his wife. The other girl isn’t to blame , the husband is to blame

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It's just a symptom of their egocentricity. Remember that a man who will leave his wife to be with you will soon leave you to be with someone else.

Account · Answer

If I was in a relationship and the guy cheated on me, I would never blame the other woman. She did it for her reasons, it is none of my business, heck she might even be in love with him for all I know.
The blame would be entirely on him for betraying me.

As for why, people hope and hope makes them believe in things that are not very probable. Plus even if the guy left his relationship for another woman, well, if he was tempted by another person, odds are that he will do the exact same thing at some point to the other woman.

imtiaz45 · Answer

Women may believe a man would leave his spouse for them due to several factors. Emotional involvement can create a strong bond, leading them to feel special or irreplaceable. If the man expresses dissatisfaction with his current relationship, it may give the impression that he is seeking a way out. Romantic notions and media portrayals often depict such scenarios, reinforcing the belief. Additionally, some men might make promises or hints about leaving their spouse, whether sincerely or manipulatively, to maintain the relationship. Ultimately, these dynamics are complex and vary greatly among individuals and circumstances. read

DishLady · Answer

I’d never ask a guy to leave his wife or his kids behind for me. First, who the f am I that a guy should abandon everything for? I’d have to be a really conceited Prima Diva to want that. Next, I’d he does that FOR me I’d always have to look over my shoulder to make sure he doesn’t also do that TO me (eg, leave me for another Prima Diva, a younger model, etc etc etc). Very stupid sort of assumption. I only know one woman among all my acquaintances who thought she could do that — and did. She has her man wrapped around her little finger in a way I find really unmanly and unsavory (super creepy) on his part. I’d never want or need that from any guy.

MisterWack · Answer

Since a lot of low down men & women do that and there is a history of it throughout the human condition. I don’t care about all men are this or all women are that however a good sizable amount have cheated on the spouse for others, even having a secret double life.

blueonblack22 · Answer

I was told that “if she will on him then she will cheat on you”. How much more this could be real if someone leaves their spouse for someone. The emotional cheating needs to be on overdrive for this to happen.

NamerOfStars · Answer

They're scumbags. It's actually probably no less common among women than men.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

It’s bc the married man they see tell their affair partners that they’d leave their wives for them

Anonymous · Answer

Well think about it. They're already choosing a man who's already in a relationship so there's your tipoff right there that they not into "healthy" relationships. Because NOBODY worth thier salt does that.

Women that do this on some level can't be attracted to a man unless another woman is already attracted to him. She most likely has self esteem issues.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Likely she felt hurt or attacked so she’s fighting back

Lionman95 · Answer

Because that´s something they find exciting since it´s a bit taboo and against social norms. But wait until the moment the same guy leaves them for another women then it´s outrageous...

sheikalana · Answer

Some women feel special just because some married guy gives them attention.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

While I believe there are men who would leave their wife for me, I would never want such a man.

avery58 · Answer

Because they're delusional and have no self respect

sheenagwapa · Answer

in my country the husband always comes bqck to the wife but if i'm the wife ewwwww no!

May_Summers · Answer

Well it happens. Perhaps having a married man is an ego booster.

Booklover_90 · Answer

It’s part of the fantasy they’ve built up in their head.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

I would have. She told me NO! she wasn't real she was just playing games

RingOfFire · Answer

Because they want to believe it.

Goodoldguy · Answer

Some really would

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