Why do some married men want to be with another female when they are still married?

[dreamermelanie]

This man who lives near me I thought was single this whole time he asked me out a while ago. Then recently found his profile that says he is married since 2014. Then his wife shows up to town to be with him when she was not with him this whole time he lived here. Why can't couples stay together or not get married at all? So that affairs to not start or rupture.

[misogynistic_pig]

Some men may seek extramarital affairs because they believe that marriage does not provide them with the emotional or sexual satisfaction that they desire.

They may feel that their partner does not understand them or does not give them enough attention, and they may look to another woman for that attention and satisfaction.

Some men may also believe that monogamy is an artificial restriction and that they should be free to pursue relationships with other people if they wish.

Also, some men may feel that marriage is an unfavorable institution for men and that it prevents them from achieving their personal goals and objectives.

They may believe that marriage and monogamous relationships are a form of emotional and financial slavery, and that pursuing extramarital affairs is a way to regain their freedom and autonomy.

It is important to note that these beliefs are highly controversial and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of all men, nor are they valid justifications for acting unfairly in a relationship.

Infidelity and disrespect towards a partner can have serious emotional and legal consequences, and it is important to take responsibility for one's actions and seek healthy and respectful solutions to problems in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

This is what happens when a woman doesn't respect herself. I graduated with this girl (quite attractive actually) but she married her highschool boy friend and believed he was all that and that she had won the lottery in the guy she found. But he wasn't loyal even then. And believed that he was throwing her a bone by dating her. It was easy to do because she believed it. I think she thought he'd grow out of it (another foolish mistake women who don't respect themselves make) now here we are in our 40's he's still cheating on her. And doesn't even really try to hide it anymore. Because what's she gonna do. He defeated her long ago. We all know and we all laugh at her.

[DermalPunch]

Why does ice water feel so good going down in the middle of a heat wave in July? Why? Biology. Please get over it.

[DermalPunch]

His cheating has to do with his being a crappy man boy.

[anon1903]

Is it a open relationship? If not, you should exit immediately.

[Summeroflove]

Because they’re unhappy and man whores. They’re disgusting pieces of shit.

[pink_blah]

Tbh tell his wife, but bring evidence. I’d feel so bad

[dreamermelanie]

Ehh. I will just try to socialize with someone else who is a single male close to my age around here. If possible.

[Adaeva]

Considering our evolutionary history, why would any man not want other women?

[David4358]

could be a lot of reasons, was your relationship with him sexual? or was it just friends?

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[dreamermelanie]

I have no relationship with this man. He barely spoke to me. He does not bother me or flirt etc

[David4358]

so he just asked you out and you said no and that was the end of it?

[MannMitAntworten]

Maybe for the same reason some married women desire to be with another man.

[buckaroobradyjr]

It's boys being boys, though I don't recommend philandering. (My parents were completely monogamous during their 53-year marriage.)

[Anonymous]

How do these men get married and get mistresses too? I don't even get a date with girls.

[Pterodon]

Because they don’t love the one they say

[dreamermelanie]

Well his wife is here with him now. ? So is he putting on an act to keep her happy here or they working on relationship? Not my business though. Maybe he cannot make up his mind about his wife and what he truly wants.

[Pterodon]

His mind should be made up once he marries right?

[dreamermelanie]

Haha. Who knows what he is really thinking or what he really wants

[Pterodon]

You can tell by actions. Actions always tell the truth unlike words which can be lies. Now what does his actions tell you?

[Pterodon]

Follow me so I can message you

[Anonymous]

simply because some men are just assholes.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Because they're scumbags.

[AmeerX]

He is probably unhappy in his marriage