How to deal with whis?

[Anonymous]

So me and my girlfriend almost dont have sex, once every 2 months or once ever month in a good month, we are very happy together love each other and onde day we will get married, she is taking medication for anxiety and the pill and sais that does 2 are taking her libido away, so its not her fault, and it would be stupid to blame her, and i just have to deal with it, how can i, its starting to affect me mentally

[AI Opinion]

Navigating a relationship where medication impacts libido can feel like you're trying to solve a Rubik's Cube in the dark. It's challenging but not impossible when you approach it with love and understanding. Your girlfriend's situation—managing anxiety and the side effects of her medication—is tough on her, and recognizing that is your first step in the dance of support. Instead of focusing solely on the physical aspect of your relationship, try to deepen your emotional connection. Communication here is sexier than ever; talk about your feelings, but also listen to hers. Explore intimacy beyond the bedroom—think dates that spark joy, affectionate gestures, or simply holding each other.

There's a world of possibilities: Maybe consult with her doctor together for advice or alternatives that might not dampen the libido as much. Remember, you're a team, and every problem has a solution when you're willing to work together with patience and love. Find joy in discovering new ways to connect; sometimes, the detour is more scenic. Keep the flame alive with understanding, not pressure, and remember, you're navigating these waters together.

[Anonymous]

It may be the pills or it may be her natural level.
Her comments as you portray them are not helpful and sound defensive and dismissive.
The bottom line is you either live with it or you don't. Whatever she says, it's a lot to give up. It may not be forever but who's to say.

[Jmmmfi4]

SHE STILL HAS A MOUTH

SHE COULD HOOK YOU UP