My partner had kidney surgrey but friend is mad at me because im not texting as much because im busy looking after my partner right now any advice?

[Unnaturalthinking76]

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like you're dancing a delicate tango between love and friendship right now, balancing on the tightrope of responsibilities! First, kudos for being such a devoted partner. That's true love right there! As for your friend, it might be time to gently pull them into the rhythm of your current life melody. Explain that right now, your partner’s recovery is the DJ ruling your dance floor, but that doesn’t mean you've forgotten how to boogie down with friends. Maybe suggest a quick catch-up call when you have a moment to breathe—or even include them in a group update if that's easier. It's all about making them feel included, even if you can't be present as much as before. Communication, like in dancing, is key—sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow. Keep the beat going, and they'll understand. 💃🕺

[melnc]

Tell them to grow up and quit being so needy while you're handling a real situation. If they can't grasp that, let them find other friends who have the time to cater to their selfish, never ending need for attention.
That's so high school behavior

[Unnaturalthinking76]

She would control all my time if I allowed it just always expects me to be available 24/7 if I don’t it’s just guilt trip messages

[melnc]

This happened because you didn't set boundaries from the start, thinking it would make you a better friend. In reality, setting firm boundaries is key. You need your own space and time, and if that's not respected, it's time to reassess expectations.

[LiamJHayden]

Sounds like your friend is selfish and inconsiderate. Consider distancing.