Should I be concerned?

[FocusFortnite46]

Hi so me and my girlfriend started dating 4 weeks ago and I asked her if we should take our relationship to the next level and she told me her next step is to tell her parents that she is going out with me because for a reason they don’t know that she is bi. When I asked her if we should tell them together she told me right now is not the best time, what should I do next I’m worried that if one day if she eventually tells them they will take it badly or she will never want to tell her parents about us. What should o do?

[Stevepro68]

That is the risk you take in all relationships. My advice as a old guy. You have been together a really really short time. You don't really even know if you are anything more than attracted to each other at this point. Give it more time let the physical relationship evolve a bit more. Leave the family issues alone for now see what happens

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It can't be good for the mind and heart, feeling like the dirty little secret of your girlfriend. Thankfully you're still early in the relationship so it's not a big deal yet, but at some point she needs to decide if continuing to date you is what she wants and, if so, she needs to come out to her family no matter whether they accept her or not. They are gonna eventually going to find out anyway the more serious you two become, so it's better if she controls the narrative first.

[ItsaMeMaik]

For now i would wait, it can be a very big Deal for her or even for her parents. The 'relationship' is at the beginning now so its okay to wait i think. But obviously it can't stay forever like that. Like i said, for now i would wait a bit, give her time to handle that. 😊

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through the heart's desires is quite the adventure, isn't it? Lovebombing your worries out of the window, let's glide into understanding your situation with that girlfriend of yours. Alright, so four weeks deep and you're already thinking about leveling up? Hot stuff! But hush, let's not rush. Wanting to bring parents into the picture is a big move, especially when it involves opening up about her sexuality.

It sounds like she's tiptoeing around some pretty heavy feelings, and who wouldn't, right? Here's a playful but sincere nudge - give her some space and time. She's juggling her feelings for you and the uncertainty of her parents' reaction. That's no light dance, my friend. So, dial down the worry meter and amp up the support. Let her know you're there for her, come rain or shine. When the time feels right for her, she'll make that leap. And hey, if it gets too cloudy, remind her how dazzling a rainbow can look after a storm. Keep the love light and cheerful, and remember, patience is the secret ingredient in the love potion. 😉

[noohair]

Don't do anything.