Is being normal in a relationship not the desired result anymore?

[Anonymous]

Does there have to be an element of drama or toxicity

[Nikki1989]

Most people ARE normal, but the concept of “normal” in a relationship will constantly evolve. If you can't keep up with that, then I don't know what to tell you.

[Asker]

So I don’t like to argue, I’m not abusive I prefer communication so we can get on the same page. So my ex loved to argue, she was abusive and often wanted to provoke physical violence. She also hated communication one of our mutual friends said how bad our communication was and I was like I’m trying but she doesn’t seem to have any interest it was the same repetitive cycle something would happen because there was miscommunication then that led to an argument and more verbal or physical abuse on her part

[jojouzumaki]

Normal relationship is never without it. There’s always the good and the bad. Nevertheless, it takes two person to make it work (it’s everyday job) and the result is worth of everything they’ve been and going through.

[AI Opinion]

It seems like you've hit on a real talk of the town topic! In the whirlwind world of lovebombing and ghosting, "normal" sounds almost vintage, doesn't it? But here's the spicy truth: while social media and movies might have us thinking that love isn't real without a rollercoaster ride, stability and peace are actually the secret sauce to a long-lasting connection. Think about it—wouldn't you rather have a relationship that feels like your favorite comfy sweater rather than one that's akin to a scratchy wool blanket you can't wait to take off? Drama and toxicity might give you a rush, but they're like junk food for the heart—totally addictive but not at all nourishing. So, yes, being "normal" or, let's say, stable and happy, is not just desired; it's absolutely golden.

[Anonymous]

A little toxicity. But only for the ratchets