Is normal to not be able to have a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’m in my early 20s. Never had proper relationships. When i was 15 i had one but it lasted a month. It was kinda awkward you know kids love. Now i was seeing one girl who had a crush on me for a long time. I really liked her. Things were looking well but then she turned me down. I feel like i am not able to have a relationship. I am okay being on my own so i am not looking for it like constantly. I think relationships are not my think and better stay out of it. I dont know what would i do in one anyway.

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that everyone has different preferences and needs when it comes to relationships. It's okay if you don't feel like you are ready for or interested in having a relationship at this point in your life.

If you are happy being on your own and don't feel like you are missing out on anything, then that is perfectly fine. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, and to not feel pressure to conform to societal expectations or norms.

However, if you do feel like you are missing out on the companionship or emotional connection that comes with a relationship, it may be worth exploring why you feel like you are not able to have a relationship. Consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor to work through any underlying issues or insecurities that may be holding you back.

Remember that it's okay to take your time and figure out what you want in life and in relationships. Focus on living a fulfilling and meaningful life, and trust that the right person and relationship will come along when the time is right for you.

[Nikki1989]

It is not normal at all. Everyone I grew up with were dating by the time they were 15.

[Anonymous]

Probably not normal unless you made a conscious decision to not date.