Ist normal that I don't want to be in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

It's been 3 months since we broke up. I'm okay but I feel I just want to be single and have peace of mind maybe for long time or until a quality woman appears. Reasons I want to be single and I don't find quality woman , I met a girl who was really into me and there was chemistry she gave me her number too but when she saw my car it was like oh my god no way to date this guy she had range Rover and I have Nissan maxima. Another woman also same when she knew I'm from certain country unfortunately she became different person. My ex was monkey branching. I think I'm going to take long time until I back to dating game

[kmg9150]

Perfectly... it's the way one should feel. You shouldn't feel the need of a relationship in order to be "complete". What that does is cause your emotions, thoughts, actions, ultimately your well being in becoming dependent on behaviors of another individual whom could take advantage over that belief. Just do you and don't let yourself or others sway your thoughts opposite of your gut feelings.


There's nothing wrong with casual relations either. Society has put taboo on it, which promote marriage and one true soul mate and all the hoopla that's instilled into our minds at such early ages as fairy tales and the alike. Your good, it's a good core to be ok not seeking the need of a committed intimate relationship. It will help to see those who's interests are not aligned with yours. If you seek relationship you give others power over you... A salesman has more power over the sale when they know you "need" what they can provide...


But to shorty answer,(in contradicting myself above) NO, it is not normal, that's because society is confused of what their belief of what is normalcy. It's not normal to give people power over your mindset and well being.


I for one, prolly will never get married. I also haven't told the girl I've been seeing for 3 now, "I Love you" although she's said it to me. I honestly don't know what Love is within a intimate relationship, I know I love my son, dad, brothers, their offspring, and other family members and some friends too... not normal, but nothing wrong with either. Life is like a fart 💨, the more you force it, the more likely that 💩 will be outcome.

[Belgie]

I would say keep dating because you need practice and you need better judgement in selecting women. Just don't get attached and don't be afraid of walking after 1 date.

[ManWithThePlan123]

It really hasn't been that much time since you broke up, if you feel you need more time that is normal.

[havingfun101]

Lol!

[Asker]

Unfortunately it's true