My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months. It’s long distance so we haven’t spent a whole lot of time together. Thing is, as we spend more time together I notice things more. Like the way he eats. He scrapes his teeth with his fork every single bite. He slurps his drink no matter what he’s drinking and he sloshes it around his mouth. If something is difficult to pick up with a fork, he scoots it to the edge of his plate and almost slurps it from the edge. He slurped rice out of a bowl. He licks his fingers. And sometimes he makes that super loud sound after sucking his finger clean. And it makes me want to actually scissor kick him.
Thing is, he’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had. He’s respectful, kind, thoughtful, and other wonderful things. It’s just his EATING. I think I’m being way too judgmental. He was born in another country and when I’ve eaten with his family, they eat the same. His younger brother is WAY WORSE. Me, I was raised to eat respectfully and as quietly as possible. So this is hard for me. But I think about that 90/10 rule. He has 90% of everything. More like 95%. And I believe I’m being unfair by being so bothered about this 5%. Please tell me I’m an ass. Thank you.
Thing is, he’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had. He’s respectful, kind, thoughtful, and other wonderful things. It’s just his EATING. I think I’m being way too judgmental. He was born in another country and when I’ve eaten with his family, they eat the same. His younger brother is WAY WORSE. Me, I was raised to eat respectfully and as quietly as possible. So this is hard for me. But I think about that 90/10 rule. He has 90% of everything. More like 95%. And I believe I’m being unfair by being so bothered about this 5%. Please tell me I’m an ass. Thank you.
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You're being judgmental. Remember you aren't perfect and I'm sure you also do things that annoy him.
THANK YOU. I feel like I nitpick a lot. But when I ask him if there’s anything about me that he wants me to work on, he says no. Why am I like this!
I'm the same way. I have to stop and humble myself sometimes, lol.
Does it only bother you during shark week?
😂😂 no it bothers me all the time. But when we’re apart I just feel
So bad about being bothered in the first place.
I feel your struggle! That shits intolerable