Do you think tall women should just stay single forever?

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Let’s face it, most men love petite women. PETITE! PETITE! PETITE!! I’m sick of the beauty standards saying smaller and petite women are the most beautiful, feminine and attractive. It makes us bigger and taller women feel bad about ourselves! Even tall men want petite or even average height women.
Why won’t men give us tall women a chance? I gave short guys a chance.

Its no wonder most of us tall women are single. Dating is shit to me. I’m 6’4” and STILL a damn virgin. I’m 25! Five years until I’m 30! So pissed off!

bobby_bush_eater · Accepted Answer

You're part of a minority demographic that is rarely spoken of and I imagine that must be very difficult.

I'm 5'7 and while many girls consider me short, I'm still taller than most girls and it's usually not a problem in dating.

You however unfortunate, are probably not going to be approached by any guy who isn't at least 6'1. It's really awkward with a girl that much taller than you (imagine me at 5'7 looking up at you trying to confidently hit on you, it's not happening) and I honestly can't get sexually attracted in such situations though I can absolutely see and acknowledge their beauty. It's a strange dynamic. In my head it literally goes "it's a shame she's so tall, she'll probably end up dating someone around her height or taller".

You're no doubt in a tough, rarely acknowledged situation. I don't have anything to say other than, I understand that your issue is very real and generally not recognized in society.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

“ Why won’t men give us tall women a chance? I gave short guys a chance.
Its no wonder most of us tall women are single. Dating is shit to me. I’m 6’4” and STILL a damn virgin. I’m 25! Five years until I’m 30! So pissed off!”

Please calm down, relax, and get a sit of water. I’m sure you are a kind, lovable, sweet soul of this Earth and any man would be lucky to have you. I’m a man (in a relationship) and I would date a woman even if she were taller than me. Just got to put yourself out there, meet men in real life, and adventure out in the sex scene I’m sure you’ll get some guy who is into tall chicks & your beautiful heart, character, personality too. Just please don’t give up, you’ll find the love of your life soon enough. 25 years old is pretty good saying as a 22 myself. Don’t think of the rush, think in the moment.

MoonFace2 · Accepted Answer

I remember feeling embarrassed and frustrated when I found most of my hymen still intact after my first boyfriend and I tried sex. It’s an awful feeling, being a late bloomer. Watching everyone else losing in in high school, while you’re still a virgin. Not by choice. I remember feeling so relieved when I finally went all the way. I’m sure you’ll go all the way, too. You need to try dating apps, if you just want to get rid of it. Which I understand. Also, use lots of lubricant for your first few times. Just to help as your body gets used to sex.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Being 6 foot is a girl's curse! Gave up on boys now just date other girls! 😔 Like tall dudes are such dicks!

Gave my virginity to my besty cause we did not want to die virgins during COVID

Like I'd love someone for me but being tall. Don't think I'll ever find it.

All the guys wanna be mommy's pets and cuddle and snuggle... Yuck

Get me a man to hold me comfort me! Treat me like a woman not Thier mom.

Avicenna · Answer

LOL, I’ll date you..  Seriously, very tall women do not have any trouble finding guys to date them if they’re willing to date guys shorter than them.

ritxi · Answer

@amazonchick171 , I'm sorry about your situation. I have seen many tall girls, especially in the North and Center of Europe and in general there aren't less atractive than if they were petite. It happened something yesterday that made me think about that. I saw a very tall girl by her back. She was wearing a navy blue tracksuit. I was thinking she was a guy with long hair until I saw her face. Dressing this way, a girl can be mistaken for a guy This way of dressing is more feminine Another feminine way of dressing When I saw her face I notice she is a girl and quite pretty and I thought what could she do to not be mistaken with a guy despite she is tall. But I don't know how difficult can it be to find feminine clothes for her size. I don't know more details about your situation, but if you want me to give you a suggestion, you can message me.

Shiprex · Answer

I feel for you on the opposite sex and height range. I hope something happens for you so don't give up. That height is quite impressive and there's lots of you to enjoy for a man so I suspect you may struggle to find a guy based on what most women seek (protector, secure, feel safe, etc.) but if it's the personality and character that could cover for that and not the physical presence, then I reckon there are plenty of guys out there who'd be keen.
Don't give up, you're a rarity and worth every moment.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I distinctly remember being at a club once there was this 7 footer chick. Guys stood in line to try hitting on her buying her drinks or dancing with her

I remember it well because I ended up getting a dance even though I barely gave her any attention

She was in fact stunning

So no height is not a deal breaker

happymaiden · Answer

I hear you, and I totally get why you’re frustrated. Society definitely pushes certain beauty standards, and it can feel like dating is rigged against anyone who doesn’t fit the 'ideal.' But honestly, the idea that all men only want petite women isn’t totally true. There are guys who love taller women, and not just as a 'preference'—they genuinely find confidence, height, and presence attractive.

I used to feel like dating was an uphill battle too, but once I stopped focusing on what I thought men wanted and just embraced who I am, things changed. I actually met my partner on MixerDates , and what I liked was that I could connect with people who appreciated me for me—not some outdated beauty standard.

You don’t have to settle for being single just because mainstream dating makes it harder. There are guys who love tall women—you just have to put yourself in the right places to meet them.

lightbulb27 · Answer

we only know the limited view we have. there's short women and middle sized women in the same boat as you.

we all have our challenges. 6'4 isn't impossible. some guys like taller and some don't like petite.

Like many guys though, you may get more no's than you like... but have to position yourself for the few yeses.

Berethor · Answer

Tall women are masculine, petite women are feminine, but who said that you need to be the best to be with someone? you had a boyfriend in the past, so it not impossible, also your virginity is your saving grace, some men find virgin women very desirable, even if they tall.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

Unit1 · Answer

Get help If I remember correctly, you were one of those, that wait until marriage to have sex. That itself drives away most men already.

LiamJHayden · Answer

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Ironco · Answer

I like all types and size women.

I've dated petite, curvy and tall... Each one was different and fun.

I'd have no problems dating someone taller than me, I'm 6 ft.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself, you're young go out and enjoy it.

nawtee_me · Answer

I like tall chicks myself and short chicks. Height is not a dating requirement in any way for me. But I do like the way taller girls legs fit over my shoulders better when having sex. And I don’t have that macho thing where I have to be taller that her. Or, should I say I can’t be shorter than her. That is the mentality of guys that won’t date taller girls. It is ego plain and simple.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

"I gave short guys a chance."  How come you're still virgin when you already dated some guys before? 🤔 Nothing ever happened?

ClassicDropout · Answer

I like tall girls. It's really just preference tho. I can't speak for anyone but me, but just know that being tall is already like 3 bonus points out of 10 for me.

AmeerX · Answer

I am 6 ft and I can give you a chance but I don't know why you think tall women are not liked 🙄.  If you are looking for something serious we can talk. Thanks

HelpfulWoman · Answer

lmaoooo imagine thinking 25 is old virginity doesn't have a use by date. stop being cringe

Christian_Cartier · Answer

While it's true that men generally prefer petite women (just like women prefer taller men), I do not believe that the preference is as strong as you are making it out to be.

Nik1hil · Answer

No dating for you.. Straight up marriage proposal..  Tall girls are Hot , sizzling!.

oceandepth1000 · Answer

im a 5'4 guy and i wouldn't mind dating a taller woman as long as she was loving and could put up with me lol i have ADHD, ADD, autism and bipolar disorder ! . hopefully you find someone who adores you!

Makeushiver · Answer

Why do you say that. I've had very tall lovers and I don't think height has much to do with iy.

noohair · Answer

Sorry tall woman. It there a face book group for people that have height issues?

msc545 · Answer

Does posting the things help you to feel better? I am asking this sincerely.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Maybe cause you act like you are getting a consolation price by dating shorter guys…

Paradox316 · Answer

I would date a tall woman because I kind of relate to their dating struggles as a short guy.

dsrice071966 · Answer

No everyone deserves someone. I am probably not tall enough for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Someone please date her so she stops spamming this

Anonymous · Answer

You are so correct! Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Anonymous · Answer

Load of rubbish plenty tall woman are taken.. if you are attractive you will be snapped up

EmmaMary · Answer

How many more times? smh

DJB72 · Answer

Be yourself. Stay strong.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Course tall women shouldn't stay single forever :)

loveladies1 · Answer

Talk women are hot 🤔

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Why? Some men love tall broads.

TallAnon · Answer

Not at all, tall guys need a good match too

Reijen · Answer

Don't whine.  You'll find someone.

zombiewoof · Answer

No, there is someone out there

Anonymous · Answer

No they shouldn't.

shortster · Answer

Of course not

JoeRob67 · Answer

No I don't.

MasterKS · Answer

why so?

eagle1951 · Answer

why.

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