Are taller women like me destined to stay single forever?

[AmazonChick171]

Hello so I am currently 24 almost 25 and I’m very tall. I am 6’4” barefoot. Not even kidding. I’ve been very tall all of my live and been teased and bullied so bad because of it. Plus I was thin so I got called a “bean pole” and ugly names.
Anyways dating has been extremely hard. Guys were terrified of me and even one that was the same height as me looked at me like I’m a freak. So I never bad boyfriends or dated in middle school or high school and it sucked. They all liked the petite tiny girls. Even the curvy, average height girls. My friends have all had boyfriends. They’re all under 5’7”. My best friend is 5’4” and her boyfriend is 6’5”. I didn’t go on my first date until I was 19 and that didn’t end up well. He came and he was shocked about how tall I was and told me he was going to the bathroom and 15-20 minutes later, he never returned.
I’ve dated but never got a phone call for a second date. I’ve always wanted a guy taller than me but it’s impossible. I had a relationship with a guy last year. We dated for six month and we were in love. He’s 5’7” but he loved my height and loves tall women but things went downhill. He started to get attitude with me, insulted me for wearing heels, making him feel emasculated and we had fights. He kept telling people that I’m his “friend”. I don’t understand he didn’t have a problem with all that early in our relationship. On our date, he scolded at me for embarrassing him, saying very harsh things to me and I looked pathetic in four inch heels (which made me about 6’8” in them) and trying to make him shorter. He straight up dumped me. I was devastated and heartbroken. I was in love with him. I think I’m going to quit dating for a while. I’ve been hurt way too much.

[ohsheeT]

So everybody has a voice box and all it is is a vibration that comes out of their mouth it makes words it means nothing nothing at all the only time it means something is if you believe those words I don't believe that you believe those words I honestly wish you had a picture up there and I will tell you in detail I mean in total detail 100% honesty what I see

Better yet I can tell you what I can see right now without even looking at you I can tell you what I see by your words your words tell me that you have a very beautiful heart it tells me that you need to accept yourself it tells me you should put on high heels and stand taller it tells me you should love yourself you're smart you're wise you need some confidence you need a big fat hug do not ever let anybody get under your skin by their words their words mean nothing most negative people almost all negative people they hate life they hate themselves so they hate everybody else in it so they will put you down because they want you to feel just like they do f*** those people they need to go get their own life you need to find your life and you need to accept it when you were born when you were brought into this world you were given a gift that gift is choice you get to choose exactly who you want to be by the things you say and do don't feel negative about yourself I guarantee you are beautiful you are kind you have a beautiful heart pull it out and get it going your name title on here says Amazon woman or something like that that turns me on totally I would love to date a girl that's bigger than me for a lot of funny and stupid and kinky reasons but I would still like you LOL

And to be honest with you you are so lucky that you don't know me because if I was your friend I would be giving you such a hard time about not believing in yourself I would dress you up and say let's go we're going to go out to the clubs and I guarantee some guys going to want to take you home wait a minute I get first option right I hope so smile you need to just forget all that crap that's not who you are you know it

[Anonymous]

You probably should quit dating. At least until you get a better attitude about it. You're trying to make your height a problem for the guys when the reality is the problem is yours. Do some guys like shorter women? Yeah. But the reality is height bias is almost exclusively a woman hangup. One you fully admit to yourself. So you picked some duds for guys. So your dating history in school was non existent. Hun this is a very common tale for both men and women.

Get over it, then get a better attitude, then get to work on making your dreams a reality. And realize life isn't a rom-com. And in the end you might have to accept your life is more rewarding as a single one.

Good luck!🙂

[AmazonChick171]

How is it my fault? The guy I dated broke up with me and hurt me so bad. I was in love with him. He said I looked pathetic in four inch heels and tall women look ridiculous in heels. Short and average height women wear heels and nobody says anything. The world is unfair towards tall women. My attitude isn’t the problem it’s the guys that encountered.

[Opinion Owner]

It is your problem. Because you're letting it affect you. If I took every mean thing a woman said to me to heart I wouldn't ever date. You're never going to get to a point in life where people aren't mean.

[AmazonChick171]

You’re rude dude. It’s not my fault! Men always say women are the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, if you want to see rude I can show you rude. I'm being Blunt. But I'm also being positive. I'm holding a mirror up to you so you can see your bad attitude. You just don't like what you see. You've lived with excuse that it's someone else's fault for so long that any notion to the contrary is offensive to you. It's fine for you to be frustrated and to vent. But believing this b. s. will only hinder you. I myself was attracted to a 6'8" Chinese girl. So I know from personal experience. Height is not really a factor with most men.

[caitycat21]

I’m sorry you’ve had many bad experiences but don’t give up, there’s a man out there that will treat you amazing and he will love you just the way you are.


Also that ex sounds ridiculous and like a loser, if he feels emasculated just by you wearing high heels that’s a him problem not a you problem

[AaronKrieger]

You are not destined to stay single. Dating isn't about being single or in a relationship, but getting a compatible relationship. Due to that, don't be in a rush to date anyone and make it a priority. If you find a guy you like, then show interest, but focus on your life in the mean time like your career.

Also, height might not be your only problem. I'd reflect on what went wrong in these relationships/dates in order to see if you have anything personality or as a partner wise to improve on. Another thing, your height might be a problem in regards to intimidating guys, so they won't ask you out. Hell, I'm 6'3 and heavily prefer women our height, yet I would be somewhat intimidated it. It's new territory for most guys and women often prefer a guy taller than them.

Anyway, I'll summarize it like this. Reflect on ways to improve yourself, don't prioritize dating so much, and you often meet someone you're compatible with when it's the least expected.

[Berethor]

6’4”? you sure that you not Trans? yea you Amazon, this much is true, do you like Kale? :)

https://www.youtube.com/embed/R22wHwWlnIk

[AmazonChick171]

I AM A FEMALE!! At birth. I get that shit so many times and I’m tired of it.

[Berethor]

Women are on average 5 inches shorter than men, so that's why it's so odd. :)

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[AmazonChick171]

This is also why I hate being a very tall girl. Most of the time I wish I was shorter.

[Berethor]

Yea it Masculine, you calling yourself Amazon so being Short Male is worse. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Amazon_Brigade

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=waEqHEebqbo

[AmazonChick171]

You’re obviously jealous

[Berethor]

Jealous of who? you think that I want to be your height as it fitting for a man?

[AmazonChick171]

You obviously have a problem with me being a woman over 6ft. Just admit it and stop being passive aggressive.

[Berethor]

Well taller than me so yea I don't like it, but I am not denying that you are Amazon.

allthetropes.org/wiki/No_Guy_Wants_an_Amazon

[AmazonChick171]

Okay. Was that hard?
Sorry you feel that way but I can’t help that. Most guys always wanna compare heights or get an attitude with me because I’m over 6’. I happened to have very tall parents and my mom got shit for it (she’s 5’10”) but not as bad as I do. My dad is 6’8” no lie.

[Berethor]

You need to find someone who is 6’8” or more too, and being strong is not all bad.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Large_and_In_Charge

[AmazonChick171]

Impossible

[renodnol32]

Nope. Not at all. Their loss. I've dated a taller woman. It was the best relationship i had. Unfortunately it didn't work out due to my travels and more time becoming long distance. The height difference never bothered us. Nor did the high heels. We were just two normal people in a relationship.

[DryGermanGuy]

Personally, I like taller women (1,75-1,80 m), but in one detail I would have to agree with that guy: When you are already tall, wearing heels is ridiculous to say the least.

[AmazonChick171]

What’s that suppose to mean that tall woman can’t wear heels and short and average height women can? That isn’t fair. 😔💔

[DryGermanGuy]

That's not what I wrote. I wrote that in *this* case, with an already smaller guy, you are really pushing it. When you are with a tall guy, wear all the heels that you want. Savvy?

[AmazonChick171]

Whateves

[boobliker]

not at all I looked for a tall girl in my twenties but no joy

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Tall women have as much right to date as short women. Personality and character ain’t measured in centimetres!

[syncheart]

I like tall women like you, you can follow me around here if you want!

[PeterLegg91]

Course they're not , there's someone out there for everyone :)

[Anonymous]

I don't like women who are taller than 175 centimeters, but I also don't like women who are less than 161 centimeters.

[AmazonChick171]

Then how tall of a woman do you like them?

[Anonymous]

I've always found tall girls gorgeous and attractive

[In_Trance]

Absolutely not

[AmazonChick171]

How do you know?