Would you be cool with this if you were the guy on the right?

[Juxtapose]

Titled: "My wife's personal trainer and I"

At that point the guy on the right should get some hidden cameras because he's cooked UNLESS his woman is a pro at resisting temptation.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Broadcasting telegraphed assumptions based on a meme. That meme only becomes menacing when a relationship is not understood, when mutual trust is not established, when the guy doesn't understand himself, nor understand the girl. In short, when there is no insight at all anywhere. I don't recommend that lol

[Justneedtokno]

Honestly, women are really good at resisting temptation. This is where your trust has to play a big part.


Now you’re not giving the man enough credit to be secured in his own relationship. Don’t throw your insecurities on this man. They’re putting the money towards buying this personal trainer that’s it.


I’m pretty sure both men and women have hobbies he might like something else

[Juxtapose]

LOL okay the woman just so happened to hire a extremely hot personal trainer for no ulterior motives whatsoever.

[DrPepper12]

Great answer. I'm surprised more people didn't say his hobby might be "he's too good looking to be straight anyway" 😂🤔🤪

[Justneedtokno]

If the husband is paying for it is his money too, so technically her having Icandy and he is smiling and approving of this obviously, there’s nothing going on and what the personal trainer is not even playing for the same team you have to have details in order for you to know what a person is going to be doing

Which means that the personal trainer is way out of her league possibly

And some men like to watch their women do stuff with other men so you never know

[BetaBucks]

I doubt he married anyone that this guy would want to sleep with. If he did, then obviously he's going to get cucked. It's not about insecurity, it's about common sense.

[Finchie40]

Apparently he is , he is smiling lol

[DrPepper12]

Sure. Why not? He's obviously a very attractive individual but even if I didn't trust him I trust her!

[Juxtapose]

Humans are not perfect and knowingly exposing your partner to temptation is fucking around and finding out.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

A man is not supposed to be a daddy exposing anyone to anything, a partner is not supposed to be a 5yo kid either, and this trainer is not supposed to be a fuckboy. So let's relax lol

[DrPepper12]

So I get burned and find out. Trust & betrayal are part of the one way trip were on...

[OddBeMe]

As a married guy of 15 years... if someone cheats its not because their trainer is hot.

[PreferNot2Say]

Fuck no I wouldn't be cool with this.

[NathanDavis]

I'm not insecure AF...

[Juxtapose]

That's a nice attitude to have in fantasyland where personal trainers don't regularly seduce people's wives.

[NathanDavis]

so you live in Insecuristan or something?

if there's that many trainers seducing everyone's wives... how come they're all still alive, lol

[Juxtapose]

Because most cheaters don't get caught. These people that get cheated on a lot of the times never even know.

[Juxtapose]

And I don't get why people would get mad at the other guy. Literally all he would do in that scenario would be exposing your life as disloyal so he's technically doing you a favor. Why stay with someone who can betray you?

[Juxtapose]

*your wife

Haha I guess your wife can be your life in certain cases.

[NathanDavis]

then you all must be dumb AF too...

if you all, already know what is "always" going on... but never do something about it... well

[Juxtapose]

Bro, what makes you think I wouldn't keep tabs on the situation? Do you think I'm stupid? Especially if I looked like that guy on the right LOL!

[Juxtapose]

It's like, heeellllo security cameras exist homie haha 😂

[NathanDavis]

have you... actually... had a girlfriend before?

[Juxtapose]

Yes, and boyfriends. I'm 35 homie haha.

[NathanDavis]

how many of them cheated on you?

[Juxtapose]

To my knowledge, zero. I was never in a situation as stark as the one in the image I used for this question so I never sweated shit.

But if I wake up one day and knew my woman knowingly brought some 9 out of 10 to sweat it out with her? I would question her choice. Why?

Because I would not bring some bombshell to train me when that would just result in unnecessary temptation. I have resisted temptation before but why even risk it?

[Juxtapose]

*woke up

[NathanDavis]

did you ever cheated on them?

[Juxtapose]

I have never cheated. I have been given several opportunities to but I turned them down. My mother and aunt being cheated on left some pretty strong impressions on me about that behavior.

And now they think about it I would not be so paranoid as to install cameras. I was just trying to show you I could theoretically have control of the situation if I so chose.

[NathanDavis]

so... ALL OF those relationships, they never cheated, you never ever cheated

yet, you're so convinced most dudes and girls are out there cheating left and right... strange

[Juxtapose]

"In 2021, around 21 percent of respondents in the United States admitted to have cheated on any partner, current or previous. This is an increase compared to last year, when 20 percent admitted to the same."

www.statista.com/.../#:~:text=Respondents %20who%20have%20admitted%20to%20infidelity%20in%20the%20United%20States%201960%2D2021&text=In%202021%2C% 20around%2021%20percent , percent%20admitted%20to%2 0the%20s ame.

I had to break up the link.

[Juxtapose]

That's one in five people, and that's just the ones who admit it. Don't be naive.

[DrPepper12]

ANY PARTNER. That captures middle school through college. If you told me married I'd take it seriously

[Juxtapose]

@DrPepper12 marriage is a failing institution which should not be taken seriously. I would never, ever get married. I would stay with somebody for life absolutely but absolutely no marriage. You have to be fucking crazy.

[DrPepper12]

Marriage is so contrary to our nature. Monogamy is ridiculous. We're not built that way.

[Juxtapose]

@DrPepper12 dating one person for life is fine, I don't have a problem with being loyal. I have a problem with the government getting involved in my relationship. It's creepy and nobody really thinks about it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hell fuckin' no. I'm not stupid.

[Jamie05rhs]

If she has any respect and loyalty, she's going to pick a female trainer.

Any not single woman who chooses a man to be her personal trainer is FOR THE STREETS!

[DrPepper12]

Your premise assumes: #1 lesbians don't exist #2 women in a relationship can't be trusted #3 all single women are whores.
That's a lot of anxiety and misogyny packed into one statement.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DrPepper12 You are welcome to be a cuck; my friend. I don't judge.

[DrPepper12]

Great anxiety & fear I feel in you.
Fear leads to anger
Anger leads to hate
Hate leads to suffering.
Jedi Master Yoda

[Jamie05rhs]

Nah, bro. Stupidity leads to suffering. Much suffering.

[seeyounexttuesday]

lol, no. unless his wife is fat.

[Astarlessnightsky]

No, i hate wearing hats.

[Dongie]

No. I have that temper.

[Juxtapose]

I mean to me it would just be stupid to let that go on. Imagine if you have a 4 for a wife but you liked her personality. Then some bombshell that is a 9 is turning up the charm with you and regularly engaging in sweaty exercise with you. Temptation is going to come upon you and let's face it, most people can't resist temptation because they are shit people.

[Juxtapose]

I personally would resist the temptation in full confidence but I would still stop the situation from happening in the first place. The best way to resist temptation is to remove the source of it.

[Jamie05rhs]

"I personally would resist the temptation in full confidence but I would still stop the situation from happening in the first place. The best way to resist temptation is to remove the source of it."
^THIS ☝️👌👍

[Juxtapose]

@Jamie05rhs yeah, I don't see why people can't understand that.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Juxtapose Exactly.