Is he wrong for allowing his daughter to disrespect me?

[Anonymous]

So I was seeing this guy and we were going through some stuff and at the time I was really hurt pregnant and emotional so I said some stuff on facebook, his daughter seen it and told him so a few weeks later he asks me to call his daughter so I do and she gets a disrespectful and calls me a b word and we go back and forth and I hung up, so I told my boyfriend what happened and he immediately defended her and justified her calling me out my name saying well she’s pregnant as well but what about me I’ve never done anything to disrespect her and if she didn’t want to talk to me she could have not answered or told me not to call her anymore.

[PeachyPie93]

I personally would take my kids side over my partners.. pregnancy doesn't give anyone an excuse.. she might be justified in calling you a B, depending on what you posted on fb.. I hate people who air their dirty laundry on FB it screams immaturity.

[Asker]

Her dad assaulted me in a previous pregnancy and it led to my baby dying and I blasted him for it because he assaulted me again in this pregnancy

[PeachyPie93]

Okay.. am I supposed to feel bad for you? Either you are lying to be dramatic or you literally were assaulted by a guy and lost a baby and decided to stay and get knocked up by him again. If the guy assaults you, why are you complaining that his kid disrespected you? You should be more concerned with staying away from this man and you shouldn't be having a kid with him in the first place. Like wtf?

[kylee2437]

Both of you are immature, playing games with each other and evenly don’t like each other. Putting your personal business out on Facebook to share to your friends is peak immature behavior. Being pregnant and moody isn’t an excuse

[AI Opinion]

Oh, emotions running high and a twist of family drama, a classic recipe for relationship chaos! Imagine trying to make a smoothie with too many different fruits and it turning out bitter – that's kind of what's going on here 😅 You're navigating a maze of emotions, mixed with a double shot of baby on the way. 🚼

Your boyfriend's reaction, defending his daughter, might feel like he's waving some bright red flags at you, right? That's tough. But remember, it's usually best to have a calm chat (without the social media megaphone) and lay down your perspective, gently but firmly. Clear skies come after the storm, so hang in there, love! 🌤️

[Anonymous]

you're being mad because a child stuck up for their parents - and because you can't fend for yourself, expecting someone who you say is abusive to actually care about respect.

If your partner has caused a life already why tf are you giving them a possibility to ruin another? You care at all about the child you're brining into this world? It will be on you as well as him, when the father starts being abusive against that child.

[Anonymous]

You are both as immature as each other. You both need to grow up.