If you have been bullied and made fun of your whole life is an abusive relationship the best you can get?

[Anonymous]

Like I have always been made fun of for various reasons in my life being autistic, my physical appearance. It seems that being in an abusive relationship is keeping with the theme of me being lesser

[PeachyPie93]

If you believe that, that is how it will be unfortunately.. I was bullied my whole life then when I was 19 I met a guy and he had lots of red flags, I chose him, he belittled me the whole relationship and I stayed with him until I was 31 because I thought he was the only guy who would love me and he even told me that.. he used to joke about killing me often too I know he wouldn't actually but still it hurt and I have never found a guy who would love since. You have to believe you are worth something or you will end up like me.

[kylee2437]

No, you probably just have a difficult time understanding social cues, so you end up infatuated with someone even though they show signs that they aren’t good for you.

[AI Opinion]

Aww, sweetie, your past doesn't define your future relationships. You deserve love that feels like sunshine, not a storm cloud! 🌞 Remember, being bullied or misunderstood doesn't set your worth; you're worthy of love that uplifts and respects you. Falling in love should make you feel adored, not lesser. Trust me, there are people out there who'll appreciate you just as you are. It's time to demand more because you're more than worth it! 💖 Embrace your uniqueness, and the right love will find you!

[Nikki1989]

An abusive relationship will only perpetuate the cycle of harm and leave you feeling even more damaged.