If during an argument a man is so insulting and hateful to the point it knocks your confidence and cry, is it true if he says he loves you after?

[Anonymous]

I personally feel like it’s rubbish as I’d never treat someone I love like that. But I’m interested in others opinions too, particularly Mens.

[Screenwriter]

this is called emotional abuse. Abusers ALWAYS say they're sorry after they abuse to they can continue to have the victim under their control and they can continue to abuse them.

If you're in such a relationship, RUN RUN AWAy. It will never get better. His goal is to keep you under this thumb as your whipping girl. Get out.

[Nikki1989]

While love and anger can coexist, using hurtful language is never a healthy way to express love.

[Asker]

I know and that’s why I question whether he actually means it or not when he says he loves me

[NamerOfStars]

MAYBE, but if so, he's got some serious emotional and/or communication problems. That's not how you're supposed to treat the people you love.

[slatyb]

Pay no attention to that. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings.

[Asker]

Thanks. So what’s his game then?

[slatyb]

To bully you until you are afraid to leave. Solution: leave now.

[Asker]

I’d never be too afraid to leave. If anything that just makes me want to leave more.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic case of emotional whiplash! 🎢 While words spoken in anger can escape like wild animals, consistent cruelty is a flaming red flag! Love shouldn't be a yo-yo of insults and apologies, sweet soul. If his words make you question your worth, it's time to question his love. Genuine love nurtures and heals, not harms. You deserve better! 💖