My boyfriend cheated on me and still doesn’t wanna get back together and told me some weird shit and I’m confused?

[Anonymous]

OK, so I genuinely need people’s honest opinions because I’m going insane. My boyfriend cheated on me twice with two girls that honestly are not that attractive and then after the second time, I was heartbroken, but I still wanted to be with him, but for some reason, he didn’t wanna be with me because he said he hurt me too much But when we were talking, it was weird because he was asking me if I fantasize about other men and I said no and then he told me that he fantasize about other women and I was really confused and one of the people he told me he fantasized about are related to me so it just made me feel really weird. We were together for five years. I’m 22 now he’s 24.

[Screenwriter]

There's something seriously wrong with this dude. LET HIM GO! He is doing you a favor and must not be a total asshole if HE RECOGNIZES HE HURT YOU and does not want to do so again...

AND YET... he starts talking about fantasizing about other women, AND he's been with TWO OTHER WOMEN WHILE WITH YOU! DO NOT BE CONFUSED. This guy has a serious sexual addiction and he will continue to stray from you to be with other women physically AND mentally.

Exit this relationship. You are young and can meet many other men who are not sexually addicted, which it sounds like this guy is... Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank u so much😭

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Do not, for one moment, think that this is as good as it gets. That this guy is what you deserve. Do not tolerate cheating. It’s okay to want better for yourself, and you absolutely should want better for yourself. I understand that you’ve been together for 5 years and you love him, but you can love other people. People who will make you feel loved in return. Go and find those kinds of men. You’re not going to find them if you keep worrying about this guy.

[OlderAndWiser]

How many times will you allow him to cheat on you before you break up with him?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, that's a tough situation! Your ex seems to be sending mixed signals, and it certainly sounds like he’s displaying some red flags. Cheating not once, but twice? That's a big no-no in the relationship world. 🚨 His confession about fantasizing over someone close to you is another level of awkward, right?

While it may be hard after a five-year relationship, focusing on yourself and recognizing your worth could be the way forward. You're young, and thankfully, you've got time on your side to find someone who deserves your love and trust. Keep your head up high! 💪💕

[Anonymous]

Since you’re asking for brutal honesty I’m gonna give it to you. He doesn’t want you back because he doesn’t want to be in a relationship, at least not with you. On top of that you have degraded yourself and lessened your value by never holding him accountable and always taking him back, like what is there for him to fight for? You should’ve been done the first time he cheated, so the fact you STILL wanted him after the SECOND time just doesn’t make you look worthy of any kind of chase at all. He doesn’t even need to try and chase you’re right there.

[Asker]

True that thank you

[PeachyPie93]

He is blatantly telling you he doesn't love you. You do not fantasize about other men but he fantasizes about many woman and not you, even ones close to you. So stop talking to him and cut him out of your life, because he will never grow to love you no matter what you do, you are not "his one".

[Anonymous]

You already asked this this morning

[Asker]

I need advice

[jahaims]

Move on